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    Default Any openers for a "DANGER" zone

    There is this hot blonde sexy looking sign lady that works in a construction zone. I have seen her there for a few days. I don't know how to open. There is not really a pedestrian access, a lot of the road and sidewalk is closed off. It is possible to walk up to her, however I feel it will be obvious that I am coming to chat her up, cuz there is literally nothing around the area, no stores, houses etc. Just heavy equipment. Also she is usually with another sign girl too. So there are 2 of them, but I only wanna get contact info from the hot blonde one.

    Any suggestions on how I should approach on how I should open?

    I was thinking of using the "I have seen you here for the past few weeks, and I always wanted to introduce myself, Hi my name is Easyflow". Then proceed with some humour, tell her I can't stay long, and get her name with her number, chat for a bit more, then excuse myself.

    My main concern in this particular situation is the actual approach.

    Any suggestion or input would be great.

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: Any openers for a construction zone "Sign" girl?

    Hey easyflow, FauxPas here. How about, "why is the word on the otherside backwards? I noticed that the other day/earlier today when I drove through here!" Good luck, and good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.

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    Default Re: Any openers for a construction zone "Sign" girl?

    Thanks FauxPas, that is a good opener.

    It's just the approach I am concerned about. I could always park my truck up the street and walk down as if I am pedestrian and do the "Hey why is the otherside backwards..."

    I think I'm gonna have to do the pedestrian approach.

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    Default Re: Any openers for a construction zone "Sign" girl?

    I asked my best friend Shantel about this one just because it was such an odd situation. She brought about an interesting point.

    Think about how many guys are cat calling and acting like idiots from their cars to her. Of course, none of them with real intent, just bothering her and whatnot. If you're going to do it, you're going to have to be low key and genuine. Some serious, humble, confident, natural game.

    I would park my car politely on the side then go talk to her. Build some minor rapport, then say she's cute and I would like to take her out to lunch sometime if she were willing. The genuine, low key, approach will be in sharp contrast to the idiots yelling from their car. It's not a beta approach if you're alpha-ing them. And lunch is semi-interested in comparison to dinner. Again, low key.
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    Default Re: Any openers for a construction zone "Sign" girl?

    Also, does he need to avoid the other one, or should he start chatting with the both of them?

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    Default Re: Any openers for a construction zone "Sign" girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    Also, does he need to avoid the other one, or should he start chatting with the both of them?
    If they're really working side-by-side, it's a 2-set. Which is where you have to win the friend (co-worker) over as well. If she's some distance away you might be able to get around that though.

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    Default Re: Any openers for a construction zone "Sign" girl?

    Thanks for the feedback and support guys. As I think about it, I will have to do the pedestrian approach. I can't just stop my vehicle in the middle of the street and start to chat her up. And yes, every time I have seen her, her co-worker is beside her. So there are 2 of them. I will have to win them both over. And I agree she probably does get a lot of car honks and guys saying stuff out the window as they drive by. I know this cuz I have done it in the past. (not to her though)

    Does anyone else feel awkward when there are 2 or more girls, and you only ask for the hot girls contact? I think of her not as attractive coworker and feel kind of bad cuz I am not asking her for her number or anything.

    I just thought of this, I could say to the coworker, "Wow, you look so much like my younger sister, it would never work between us", kind of disqualifying her out of the set. Kind of a neg in away, but also kind of building rapport. I can use that line out of the barrel, start to talk to her, ignore the hot one for awhile, them get her involved with the convo.

    My only other thought is that they are working and have an important job, I can't be talking to them for too long, cuz at any second they may need to leave and stop/direct traffic. I don't wanna be standing there with my "dick" in my hand waiting for them to come back.

    I think I am over analyzing this. This is why there is a 3 second rule.

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    Default Re: Any openers for a construction zone "Sign" girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by easyflow View Post
    Does anyone else feel awkward when there are 2 or more girls, and you only ask for the hot girls contact? I think of her not as attractive coworker and feel kind of bad cuz I am not asking her for her number or anything.
    Haha, my main problem is when they are both as attractive, and I can't decide who to focus on

    Don't feel bad for something like that. Your Mindset should be that even the attractive one is lucky if she gets your number

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    Default Re: Any openers for a construction zone "Sign" girl?

    OK guys, your NOT gonna believe what has happened. I have not been by her worksite since I last posted. However I may have pulled an AFC move. I placed an add on the Craigslist "Missed Connections" section. Saying I drive by, I wanna say HI, don't get the opportunity, blah blah blah.

    Guess what, I get 3 emails from her today. At first I thought it was some typical Craigslist spam bullshit. In one of the emails she give me her name and tells me to find her on facebook.

    It's her.....What are the chances??? It's fricken insane.

    So now I gotta work my email game. I'm gonna play it slow hand. She knows my real name but on facebook, I use a different name so if she tries to search me she won't find me. This is gonna be fun!

    Ding Ding, game on.

    Thanks for everyone's input on this one, and if you have any suggestions please feel free to let me know.

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: Any openers for a construction zone "Sign" girl?

    CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! Work it! I'm very happy for you! Good luck, and good vibes! Ciao, FauxPas.


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