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    Default The Latch Approach

    Hey guys.

    I'm sure someone else somewhere probably has a similar technique to this, but I thought I'd share anyway.

    This is a technique of my brother's. He's engaged now, but has always been a natural (douchebag lol). This was one of his main approaches.

    The tricky part is, she has to take an interest in you first. Won't work for me as well as some because I'm not that great looking lol.

    Basically, once you've established a couple of times that she's looking over at you and you've made eye contact a couple of times (the latch), find a reason to walk past her, to use the bathroom, go for a cigarette, go to the bar etc.

    Do this around 3 times, each time she will hope you approach. A little addition I made is that, if you can, find a reason to stop right next to her the last time you walk past. Check you're phone or something.

    By now she should have given up hope. Now make your approach.

    Simple but apparently effective. I've not field tested this myself yet so if anyone wants to, I'd appreciate feedback.

    : GeMiNi :&

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    Default Re: The Latch Approach

    The girl has to be really in to you for this to work, ultimately, it's kinda bad

    If a girl sees you looking but then you take half an hour to go talk to her, it's obvious you're not sure what to do or say
    If it still works its because she really really wanted you, in which case an instant approach is still better

    Your best bet is still mysteries 3 second rule, approach immediately and it shows much more confidence

    In general if a girl shows interest, approach and tease her, I like something like "hey! I saw you checking me out, I am Not a piece of meat ya know?". (turn the tables on pickup, works for too many reasons than I can explain here)
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    Default Re: The Latch Approach

    It's not a good approach. That is super AFC.

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    Default Re: The Latch Approach

    honestly, if a hot chick did that to me sitting with a group of friends we would probably laugh at how pathetic she is.

    If you where to do this it would make it seem like you want her to start the confrontation because you are too scared to talk and keep pacing.


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