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    randomdude123 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I don't like talking

    I don't think it' s a flaw. It runs in my family or I think I picked this up from my dad. We're both the silent type and like to be left alone.

    I am always calm, cool and collected and don't move around much. I keep my sentences concrete and straightforward. I am not intense though because I smile all the time but I don't make a big fuss about it. Basically I am like James Bond but without all the p***y.

    From my experience with past girlfriends, I understand something about women. They nag. That's the one thing I cannot tolerate that brings the absolute worst out of me.

    So my question is do I have to get out of my comfort zone? And if yes, then what should I be more like. Animated, talk a lot, eye contact? What are some of the things I need to bring forth?

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: I don't like talking

    Talk to everyone you can ,be a social butterfly sort a speak, anyone you see talk to will help u get out of your comfort zone and you will find conversations just kinda happen after a while and will be way natural

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    Default Re: I don't like talking

    I use to be introverted like you, sometimes I still am. Also, it looks like you already know what needs to be changed so there you go.

    It's all about feeling comfortable and confident in your own skin.

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    Default Re: I don't like talking

    The way I became more social is that i visualized that i was one. Talk to as many people in as many random situations as possible. Talk to women behind the counter in your local starbucks. Work on banter. If you believe your a good talker then you become a good talker.
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    Default Re: I don't like talking

    Talk to everyone. Be the guy at the coffee shop that chats with everyone sitting nearby. Strike up a conversation with the cashier at the gas station. It's a process, but each new "set" you open is getting you closer to getting laid.

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    Default Re: I don't like talking

    I believe it's important to find your own style as long as you have a few basic principles.

    If you are the "James Bond" type then work with that. You don't HAVE to be animated or anything that extreme from who you are. But I do know James Bond isn't worried about rejection when he approaches because he is so smooth. So yes you want to be more talkative, but you can keep a suave tone about it. And have a sense of humor. Like saying something funny, but NOT laughing at your own joke. That is pretty smooth. And just like James Bond you want to always assume attraction. Just think "She already wants me. I just have to lead her in a natural way so she will feel ok with lowering her inhibitions with me." Hope this helps and good luck.


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