I don't think it' s a flaw. It runs in my family or I think I picked this up from my dad. We're both the silent type and like to be left alone.
I am always calm, cool and collected and don't move around much. I keep my sentences concrete and straightforward. I am not intense though because I smile all the time but I don't make a big fuss about it. Basically I am like James Bond but without all the p***y.
From my experience with past girlfriends, I understand something about women. They nag. That's the one thing I cannot tolerate that brings the absolute worst out of me.
So my question is do I have to get out of my comfort zone? And if yes, then what should I be more like. Animated, talk a lot, eye contact? What are some of the things I need to bring forth?