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    DareMe is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Sarged by an undesirable 'HB'

    There are times in life when we can learn from reflection. As I approach women, I will try to remember what it feels like to be hit on by an unwanted stranger. This odd experience will improve my game & hopefully yours too.

    Last week my wing, Fastidious, and I hit ChaCha in Silverlake to find a rap/dance scene in full effect with an odd mix of thugs, Latinas & hipsters. It was hilarious.

    I was just trying to have a good time, people watching while avoiding the room-scope. Suddenly an undesirable 2 set appeared over Fast's shoulder, jiggling their alcohol filled bodies. The one was starring directly at me. As I avoided eye contact, I started to feel uncomfortable so I turned away. She quickly appeared in my peripheral again. Over the next 20mins she desperately fawned for attention with ridiculous dancing & blatant eye contact. When my wing went looking for another friend, I pulled out my phone. You will never believe this, but the undesirable 'HB' contorted her body over sideways to get in my field of view. Her head was twisted upside down, below my phone when she delivered her bombing opener:

    "Booty call?"
    "What?" I said
    She giggled, "I said something inappropriate," as she squished next to me.
    "Ok," I tried to dismiss her with body language.
    "I said, booty call?" She shouted with a smile.
    "Oh," I said, confused.
    She flashed her best sultry look.
    "Sorry," I shook my head.
    Then she holds her hands up to my chin & I recoil, wondering what the hell is going on.
    "I bet under there (beard) you have an angel face."
    "No. I just look like a kid." (I know it's the same thing. I was messing with her.) Then she tried to make me play the age guessing game & I refused. At this point she knew I wasn't interested but forced herself into my world.
    "My GF is getting her groove on over there so I'll just hang out with you for a while."
    "Why don't you go get your groove on?" I ask without eye contact.

    Then my wing, Fast, reenters & she asks if we're brothers, compliments our eyes, tells us she's complimenting us, etc...
    You get the picture. I was ready to leave & wondered what other women in the bar thought of that interaction.

    As we left, Fast asked "What if she had negged you?"

    I laughed then thought for a second. "Actually that would have at least been interesting or challenging. OMG, I just experienced a full-on AFC sarge from the other side."

    Don't be that guy. Ever.

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    Default Re: Sarged by an undesirable 'HB'

    DareMe excellent post!!! FauxPas here. This is a true eye opener to me! Any chance you will further explore this new world? Seeing this from another perspective really opens your eyes! Kudos to you and your man Fastidious! Can I join Up with you guys? (Ha,ha!) I will keep this in mind. A good hunter knows what he's up against, he knows the terrain, he knows how his intended thinks and moves. You have reminded me to take a look from my intended's point of view, to see the lay of the land from her perspective. Thanks again. Good luck, and good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas

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    Default Re: Sarged by an undesirable 'HB'

    Haha...thinking back on it, we should have gotten free drinks out of her. That would have TRULY been experiencing the other side :P

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    Default Re: Sarged by an undesirable 'HB'

    Thanks, FauxPas.

    This whole community is an eye opener to me! The more I learn & practice seduction, I am reminded to think like I'm the prize. Realizing I am interesting & social enough to have options means I do not need to stress over one girl (I have a long history of that). Thinking like that IS entering her world.

    Message us when you are in town & we can meet up.

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    Amazing post man. Being able to understand the average woman's reality is a great way to figure out how to interact with them. You've experienced something rare, that really only celebrities experience. Keep it up fellow PUA.

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    Thanks BatMan! This is Hollywood but I don't carry celebrity status. Haha

    As an AFC, I would have probably engaged her as soon as I noticed IOIs, not to flirt but just to be nice. The PUA community has changed my outlook. I think she only went to the ridiculous extent of forcing herself on me with a bombing opener because I ignored her. That is rare for women to experience.

    Yesterday I ignored a gorgeous new coworker who was sharing my desk space for the day only. Meanwhile, I engaged other males & made them laugh. After about 5mins of social proof from the males, she butted in, "Do you have enough space here?" I acted like I didn't notice her before & introduced myself. By the end of the day I had discovered that she had a BF but she number closed ME & she is offering to set me up with a girlfriend!

    This knowledge is JEDI.


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