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    Hightower4000 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to follow up 'Dyeing my hair' openener

    I'm not an experienced PUA at all, but I used this opener with success a couple of times now:

    Hi can I have your female opinion real quick? Me and my friend back there have a discussion about whether or not I should dye my hair blonde. I think it would be cool be he says it will make me look gay.

    The girls tell me not to dye my hair blablabla then I neg one by asking 'well you dyed your hair too right?', even though she clearly hasn't.

    So far for the opener. What's next? Where to take the conversation after this?

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    Default Re: How to follow up 'Dyeing my hair' openener

    Well it depends on her response really... because these days you may think a girls hair is natural and it is not...

    if she says yes it is dyed you may ask:
    you: "whats your original color?"
    her: "[hair color]"
    you: "oh your natural color definitely would look better on you but your current color is alright too" of course with a nice smile and in a sarcastic tone. maybe throw a light touch on the shoulder briefly.

    if her answer is no:
    you: "maybe you should consider it. try a new look on for size."

    in my experiences using this reply, she has usually asked my opinion of what color or something along those lines... thus you are immediately establishing rapport and increasing your value to her...

    or

    you: reach out and just quickly grab a tuft of her hair "you have such nice hair i think it would look great this color"

    the result of this one will end up her asking a few questions as to why thus she is essentially seeking your approval of her appearance at this point looking for you to build her back up...

    (this reply is also assuming you have established a false time constraint... for if done wrong you can seem to be a complete creeper...)

    ultimately there isnt a set way to go... it is all situational based obviously and you have to kind of feel the situation...

    once you have Kino go from there and follow your normal routine...

    best of luck,
    sinister

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    Default Re: How to follow up 'Dyeing my hair' openener

    Hightower4000, hello, FauxPas here. I love your style, you'll do well! A quick thought came to me. Maybe after the neg fixate on her shoulder and say "oh that's annoying!" as you reach toward her shoulder and dust it off. You can pretend to dust off dust or maybe dandruff. With dust "don't you own one of those lint rollers? Turn around for me to see what else has tagged along for a ride" With the dandruff that your pretending is there, "you better get a better brand of hair color. C'mon I think there's a place around the corner" as you lead her outside. If the girl really does have either of these issues ABORT the mission. This in my opinion would be just to cruel. Your learning to be a PUA, not an as@#&le! I would only use these on girls who clearly do not have these issues, and have a good esteem vibe!! You too should be impeccable in your presentation to her. Good luck, and good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.

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    Default Re: How to follow up 'Dyeing my hair' openener

    Hi Fauxpas, thanks for the reply!

    Okay, so then I will double neg her. The result should be that she tries to win back my approval, right? And taking her outside is to Isolate her?

    Cheers!

    Hightower

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    FauxPas is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: How to follow up 'Dyeing my hair' openener

    Hey Hightower4000, FauxPas here. Yes, I would double neg her, but only if her self esteem vibe seems positive, and she seems fun! Again you may only pick one of my two suggestions and incorperate into your NEG, so in away it's just an exteded NEG!. Ha, ha! The whole time you are leading her it should be light and fun, light and fun. Obviously when your outside and looking for the store you can say, "hum, I guess I was wrong!" and build rapport from there. I hope this helps. Please contact me whenever. Good luck, and good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.

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    Default Re: How to follow up 'Dyeing my hair' openener

    Hm whoa. Double negs, be careful with that, and not so early if you insist on NEGing at all. Make sure she's HB 10 and is very confident in her looks. Double NEGS this early could just mean to her your a jerk, no matter how playful or lite u may seem, cuz she doesn't know u and u mite be just NEGing her for your own benefit. My 2 cents.

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    Default Re: How to follow up 'Dyeing my hair' openener

    Thanks, i'll be careful with that! I find 'teasing' in a more light playful way working fine to keep a nice positive vibe. I try to only use negs when necessary.

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    Default Re: How to follow up 'Dyeing my hair' openener

    Yeah, u wanna go in with higher value and raise the groups value up to yours, kind of like framing have the dominant frame, bring them into your reality. If ur gonna neg, make it sexual/flirty. Leave her with no doubt what your intentions are, you can get away with more sh!t later, anyways I'm rambling, (I'm obsessed with the female mind) haha take care


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