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    manimal is offline Aspiring PUA
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    so basically, me and my buddies enjoy getting a bite to eat at the mall and look around once a week usually. As we walk around we tend to have a group of girls try to talk to us. My friends really are not fantastic in this area either, but we always end up just ignoring it and losing girls. my problem is just starting the initial conversation. Any Advice?

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    Default Re: talking to girls that approach me

    hmm didnt u say they talk to you? if thats so, they will have started the conversation, they will most probs do lots of talkin, and all you gotta do is continue from there ..

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    Default Re: talking to girls that approach me

    I wish girls approached me... lol

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    Default Re: talking to girls that approach me

    How old are the guys & girls in this story? As an adult, I have never witnessed or heard of this happening to non-celebrities. Reminds me of high school at the malls & dollar theater. The girls who approached were always silly & lying about their ages in order to date older boys.

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    Default Re: talking to girls that approach me

    If they are approaching you then I don't see the problem. Just make conversation, let them talk and you just keep the conversation going.

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    I usually am surprised if woman approaches me first esp online someone I don't know if they are male or female LOL Like to be helpful when I can esp if they really want some help with something that I know about but prefer in person rather than online.

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    manimal is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: talking to girls that approach me

    I'm actually 17 at the moment. And im going to be a senior in high school. I feel like i just get nervous and have a hard time actually engaging in a conversation. That is what my problem is. I guess next time it happens i will just chatter with them about stuff and hopefully get a date.
    -thanks for all the replies!

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    Default Re: talking to girls that approach me

    Quote Originally Posted by manimal View Post
    I'm actually 17 at the moment. And im going to be a senior in high school. I feel like i just get nervous and have a hard time actually engaging in a conversation. That is what my problem is. I guess next time it happens i will just chatter with them about stuff and hopefully get a date.
    -thanks for all the replies!
    Make the most of that time. Adult life won't include groups of women approaching. Also appreciate how early you are practicing this stuff. You are like 15yrs ahead of me! I'm jealous.

    Just stick to a textbook structure that works. I'm assuming you have at least read The Game.

    I like to:
    Set a time constraint (especially if they approach you)
    Ask their opinions on something topical
    Ignore the one you like
    Demonstrate value
    Start a false exit & ask how they know each other
    Isolate your target
    Kino test her while finding common interests
    Stop talking & let her talk herself silly
    Use a sly Number Close


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