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    Tahitian is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to find a girl for a Threesome

    Hi Guys,

    My missus and I are quite keen to have a threesome with another girl (not gonna lie, I am the one who put that thought into her head). However she says that I am the one who has to find the girl and bring her home with us. I really sucked at talking to girls just for a common pick up but for a threesome it will be much harder I think. Anybody been in that situation before? Any advice how to get another girl to come with us would be greatly appreciated.

    Cheers.

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    Default Re: How to find a girl for a Threesome

    I've never had a threesome, so you are only lucky sob. This really throws me off that she expects you to find the girl. It's no surprise that you put the idea in her head, but my two cents is:
    Your gf would be more comfortable with a threesome including one of her friends, not a stranger.
    Perhaps that's just the way she is? very adventurous? :P

    You should go to a club/bar and make it a game with your gf to pick out girls she'd be interested in including in your 3some. That will get both of you excited. As for how to bring another HB home with you, someone wanna help?

    Cheers and enjoy it you sob.

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    Default Re: How to find a girl for a Threesome

    Man, I have had more threesomes than I can remember and quite a few I just missed out on. Grrr...anyway, the most important component it seems is to build a sexual vibe. I just missed out on a threesome a few months ago. It didn't happen but the stage was set. As it turns out, I slept with both women seperately. I will warn you though, threesomes are like funnel clouds, all the ingredients can be in place and it happens but just as easily they can dissipate.

    First ingredient= Curiosity
    The girl I was dating during her "girl talk" raved about me sexually and women listen, this peaks their curiosity. Also as a general rule, I am always playfully sexual with women. it lends to a comfortable sexual vibe where jokes a cast around and sets the tone. If they are curious you are in the game.


    Second Ingredient = Conversation
    Every single time I've had a threesome or almost had a threesome there was always some talk of it before hand. Not directly about the intrested parties, I don't reccomend that. About threesomes in general, what they would be like, etc.

    Third ingredient = Vibe
    The last time the girls and I went to dinner and they were both life guards and I made a comment about them in the showers. Both of them ran with the thread and made jokes about it. The Vibe was set. They both entertained the "joke" that is a good thing.

    Fourth Ingredient= Alcohol
    I have yet to have a threeway or a near threeway that didn't involve a little bit of alcohol to take the edge off.

    Finally bro, you must have patience, sometimes it just doesn't work out. The last time the girl "volunteered" to do my chick and I. She said "You both seem to have this fantasy.....I can do it." It still didn't work out, though I did get her later one-on-one.

    So good luck my friend.

    Oh wait..one last thing...if all goes well, you let them get super hot and bothered with each other before you insert yourself. Trust me on that one. Be patient, make sure they are flaming hot and all their LMR is gone. Girls don't tend to get LMR with another girl so just wait it out.

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    Default Re: How to find a girl for a Threesome

    Okay. I know this is an older forum. But I just happened to stumble along it amd decided what the hey, I know tons of guys who need help finding girls for threesomes. And I know that suave mentioned how to coerce the women. But let's say you're the kind of couple who doesn't get out much, or go clubbing. Well then I can give you some of the things that have worked for me.

    1) go ahead and eliminate the possibility that it will be harder for you to find a girl for this. Because it won't. You have a secret weapon called a woman on your side as long as she understands how to use what she's got. If she is a great wingman, let her work. If not, initiate a situation with a girl you're talking to by saying something along the lines of, " all the girls say(insert gf's name here) is such a great kisser, have you ever kissed a girl?" and as long as you make sure your gf knows a bit prior to and is ready this will work like a charm. But don't use that as an ice breaker. Just don't.
    If you don't have a girl at all to help or your girl has left it entirely up to you then 2) is a good option.

    2) now brace yourself here. The personas section on Craigslist. It takes the longest but is BY FAR the easiest to do solo. All you need is a couple of flattering pics. A public meeting place. And a little while to get to know them to make sure they're clean. But it works better than anything else. If your with a girl post in the mw4w or w4w. If your single go straight for mw4m or ww4m. An alternative to Craigslist is apps like zoosk. You just set up a profile as a woman and make sure the girls know its a couple, you can get quite a bit of action there too.

    3) the most comfortable option I have found to be with friends, or friends of friends, or even co-workers. But that will without a doubt lead to an awkward relationship. At least for me. The easiest way to find who your women like is to just ask. Seriously, just ask. And there will be hesitation because then the question becomes, " will the other workers/friends find out? What will they think?" so I only do that if the chick is super cool and confident.

    NOW, moving on to what to do to get the mood going. And I start with alcohol. Enough to get inebriated but not sloppy. The sex will be sloppy enough trust me. Then there has always got to be a warm up. For example, dirty truth or dare. Spin the bottle (depending on group size). Watch porn together.e Or just a good ole threesome makeout rotation. You can come up with your own, but truth or dare is best for not making anyone make the first move, and there are tons of life saving smart phone truth or dare apps to help (if it's your first threesome, that's your best choice to get clothes off in a non awkward way) and KNOW YOUR BOUNDARIES! You need to know where women don't want to be touched. That should be question number one in truth or dare. Amd also, set up boundaries for the couple.
    Also, if it's your first time. Take a pre sex supplement. Viagra cialis or even things like night rider or knock offs will work too. The first experience i had was a foursome neither me nor the other dude could get it up, leaving the women to their business. But with the aid of some pills, we were stallions. Also you're going to want more endurance where you will be drained twice as quickly and you'll be twice as aroused, so the pills will help with that too. It's okay to let loose early and let the girls go back to a little fun when you have a pill on your side, you'll bounce right back in. Also take control, the best research you can do is porn. Find out what works, and what can be done while under the influence of alcohol.
    Lastly. Don't cuddle the unicorn (the third girl). If that's anyone's job it's your gf's. Do not do it. Your interaction with the unicorn is only what the girl allows, and should not proceed the sex, after that its done. If anyone has any other questions. Hmu. I'm not a master, but I've got quite a bit of experience through trial and error.


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