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    DareMe is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Challenge: Wing a complete stranger

    Social experiments help me shift away from Approach Anxiety & build confidence. One thing I've stumbled upon is talking to complete strangers without a pick up angle. This is powerful. How many times in your life have you had a complete stranger introduce you to all the best people in the room? Or wing you into a set with women? Or help you find your friends? Unless you are an HB10, this is probably rare.

    I have always been an intuitive, perceptive, discerning type. Some people used to say I could read minds (haha) but it is only reading body language. In my confidence building games, I'm always trying to challenge myself & stay in-tune with my gut feelings. Being sober helps. I challenge you to try noticing what strangers are feeling & imagine what they might need. Then be the friendly facilitator without an angle. You will never believe what can happen.

    I will post my most notable stories below.

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    Santa Barbara Birthday Boy

    After a successful AMOG battle, I was on fire so it was time to try something completely different. Earlier in the evening, I had ordered a drink next to a guy celebrating his birthday alone. I decided to get the birthday boy laid & I made it my mission to tell every HB in the bar it was the stranger's big day. He was so grateful he bought me drinks & gave me lots of respect in front of other people. I winged this complete stranger into sets that ended in number closes. It was so easy:

    Me: Happy Birthday! Cheers! (every time I passed him)

    Me: Where are all your ladies?
    BB: Awe, the real party is Friday.
    Me: No way, we gotta get girls around you tonight.
    BB didn't believe me so I opened a 3 set right next to us.
    Me: Say happy Bday to my friend!

    The Birthday Boy leaned in and took it from there. He number closed 2 or 3 who wanted to attend his party. I didn't see him alone again that night. I want someone to do that for me one night. My wing, Fast, was confused as to what the eff I was trying.

    Me: Dude sarging! It's so progressive.

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    Wrap Party HB9s
    Last year, (before my PUA studies) I attended a wrap party where I knew almost everyone in the room except a few HB9s in 2 different sets. Both were actress types. Both where similar approaches about 1hr apart. I first treated them like they were out of place because they exhibited that body language. Then I offered to introduce them to anyone in the room.

    Me: Hi, how do you know this crowd? (because she obviously didn't)
    HB: Oh I don't really. I just... (she qualifies herself then asks me who I know)
    Me: I think I know everyone here. Who do you want to meet?
    HB giggles / shit tests me because she doesn't think I'm serious.
    Me: Come on, I'll introduce you to my favorites. (I extend my elbow for her to take)

    I like arm candy. It's classy & offers tremendous social proof. As they took my arm each time I told them little quirky things about people at the party. Twice that night I led HB9s around the room to introduce them to the power players. Each time everyone noticed. At the end of each girl's tour, I did not try to get their phone numbers. Before PUA training, I assumed HB9s would shut me down anyway. When those 2 girls left (about 15mins apart) they each found me, asked for my FB info & friended me that night or the next day. My social proof was so high at the end of that party, the men were hanging around to see where I wanted to go next.

    Bros: I need to hang out with you more! WTF? You had different hot blondes on your arm the whole night. Who were they?
    Me: (keeping cool) Just some girls who didn't know anyone.

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    The Lost Woman

    Here's an easy experiment: take a look around at the people alone in a bar & try to imagine why they are here. Usually their body language makes it very clear. He's huddled over his drink; possibly a regular, possibly alcoholic. She only engages the bartender; possibly his GF, possibly a Hired Gun off work. Then there's my favorite: the girl alone frequently looking around & at her phone.

    Last week we were in the middle of the bar when I spotted this exact woman. I approached without the intention to close, just experiment.

    Me: Your friends are looking for you.
    She made a confused look.
    Me: They're out back.
    HB: What? Who are you? (smiling)
    Me: I'm a guy telling you that your friends are out back.
    HB: Do you know them?
    (I smile & shake my head 'No')
    HB: What? How did you know?
    Me: Find your friends. Have a nice night. (smiling very slyly)

    Geography is key here. We were in the middle of a crowded bar & she had been looking around. There were only two other places they could be: back bar or smoking patio. I took a chance because she had a typical smoker-chick black leather jacket. (Ever noticed that trend?)

    Later that night it was a stupid-easy opener...obviously. She was in a 4 set (which I discovered later was actually a giant gaggle of girls. Good reason not do the same material twice in a night.)

    Me: Hey! You found them!
    HB: Yes, thanks! This is the guy I was telling you about!
    HB: You're that guy? How did you know? Do we know you?
    Me: (In the most dismissive tone) No, I just have this thing where I can sort of read peo---
    HBs: What? You can read minds?
    Me: No, it's no big deal. My mom thinks so but she's a mom. Haha! I'm just percepti--
    HBs: Holy shit! You're a mind reader!? Don't be embarrassed! What are we thinking?
    Me: No I can't. I need to focus & it's too loud here.
    HBs: Come on, do us! (4 set begging)
    Me: Ok, I want you (original HB) to think of a number between 1 & 5 but don't tell me.

    Then I stood there for a minute with a stone face as if I was bored. The HBs are giggling and shit testing me but I stay silent until they force me to speak.

    HBs: He can't do it. He's a fake. Come on tell us.
    Me: This is dumb. You made it too easy. (held up 3 fingers very slowly)
    HBs: Was that it? (she nods, stunned)
    HBs: Oh my god! WTF? You have to do it again!
    Me: No. I'm not jumping through your hoops. (smiling)

    At this point the set cooled off because I had just said 'No' to the Protector Girl. So I agreed.

    Me: Ok fine. Only one more. I want you each to think of a number between 1 & 10 but don't tell me. (I used Style's number guessing routine with my variation because most women are indecisive)
    Me: Wait, you cant do that.
    HBs: What did we do?
    Me: Who just changed it? (The Protector Girl squirmed so I focused on her.)
    Me: You can't do that. You changed it.
    (Her mouth gaped like she saw a ghost)
    Me: It was 7 but you..

    From there it was over! The whole group exploded because they were all thinking 7. They jumped up & down screaming and turned in circles like idiots. Imagine you saw a 4 set doing that in a bar from a guy just talking. I've never been that guy. Thanks, PUAs!


    Post Script:
    Later that night I had isolated a new girl from a new 3 set & the original 4 set passed by because they all knew each other.

    Protector Girl: Did he read your mind yet? (treating me like the dancing monkey)
    New HB: What, no?
    OPG: He can read minds!

    She left, I dismissed it & we kept talking. So glad I wasn't 'that guy' reusing junk in the same bar.

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    Default Re: Challenge: Wing a complete stranger

    DareMe, I enjoy your posts! Very well put together! Good luck, good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas. PS Oh ya, keep posting, I'll keep reading!

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    Default Re: Challenge: Wing a complete stranger

    Just join this forum and its my first post reply.I really want to share my experiences.

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    Default Re: Challenge: Wing a complete stranger

    Great story DareMe. Keep it up!

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    Default Re: Challenge: Wing a complete stranger

    nice post DareMe, i read it all ;D and actually gave me some ideas haha thx keep em coming bro

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    Default Re: Challenge: Wing a complete stranger

    Holy shit! Thanks, guys.

    I just watched Roger Dodger (2 stars) and I was a downer. Roger is not PUA. But the best wingman line in the movie:
    Go tell a girl your wing has something to tell her. And it will blow her mind.

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    Default Re: Challenge: Wing a complete stranger

    Quote Originally Posted by DareMe View Post
    The Lost Woman


    Me: Wait, you cant do that.
    HBs: What did we do?
    Me: Who just changed it? (The Protector Girl squirmed so I focused on her.)
    Me: You can't do that. You changed it.
    (Her mouth gaped like she saw a ghost)
    Me: It was 7 but you..
    This was really good. Did you read her body language? Was she the alpha female and you knew she was the one to shit test?


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