I'm saying YOU have a problem with YOUR inability to drive at the moment. It's not the logistical problem of not having a car, it's the fact that you aren't okay with it, which is Inner Game, not logistics. It's the same thing as guys who don't think they deserve HBs. A self-fulfilling prophecy. You don't deserve her beause YOU THNK you don't deserve her, not because you actually don't. If YOU have a problem with not having a car, she will have a problem with it, but only because you had a problem with it first.
You're the leader and she's going to feed off your state. If your state is one of inadequacy that is how she is going to feel about you.