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    Default Re: Ask a girl out with no Car

    I'm saying YOU have a problem with YOUR inability to drive at the moment. It's not the logistical problem of not having a car, it's the fact that you aren't okay with it, which is Inner Game, not logistics. It's the same thing as guys who don't think they deserve HBs. A self-fulfilling prophecy. You don't deserve her beause YOU THNK you don't deserve her, not because you actually don't. If YOU have a problem with not having a car, she will have a problem with it, but only because you had a problem with it first.

    You're the leader and she's going to feed off your state. If your state is one of inadequacy that is how she is going to feel about you.
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    Default Re: Ask a girl out with no Car

    Quote Originally Posted by kino911 View Post
    So you are saying she want view me as a lower quality male if I don't drive? I'm 21 freaking years old I should be driving.
    Not at all - it's other qualities that are more important and if you told her the story of why you can't drive honestly you will be playing both the honesty and bad boy card

    She's a checkout chick not a supermodel or lawyer

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    Default Re: Ask a girl out with no Car

    I personally wouldnt say you punched a police officer in the face. You can be a bad boy without coming across as a fool who cant control his anger. This isnt the way to go about it.

    Having a car isnt a big thing. Ive never even thought about the fact that I dont have a car when picking up girls. I just phone a taxi.

    Riding a bike can actually attract women. I always get compliments on my bike. Go out and buy a nice fixed wheel bike and i bet you will get loads of people tell you how nice it is.

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    Default Re: Ask a girl out with no Car

    I have a very limited amount of time to talk with her since she is at work and I have not established much connection because of this but I have to do SOMETHING!

    so the plan is to say; "I know this sounds crazy and I probably should of said this a month ago but do you wanna go to the zoo with me sometime."

    (it would be funny to add in "I figured that would be a familiar habitat to you since your such a sexy beast" lulz!

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    Default Re: Ask a girl out with no Car

    LOL please don't say it like that...even though its really funny..I have a feeling she would shut you down. I like the first part though were you say.. " I know this sounds crazy.... because it makes you sound like your spontaneous.

    Definitely don't worry about not having a car, my brother had all kinds of girlfriends without owning a car, he would always just bs and say it was in the shop. The easiest way to get her number would be to slip her a note so she doesn't have to feel all weird handing it over the registerer.

    On the note you could put something like: Hey I totally saw you checking me out...dont worry i won't tell your boss.. lol jk but you seem cool hit me up some time my number is xxxxxxxxx.

    Id give her your number instead of asking her out up front because it'll give you more time to get to know her and make her feel like she wants to go out with you sometime. Just remember that if you say "I know I should have said this a month ago" she will know you were to scared to ask...and if you tell her you think she's sexy before your dating for a month she might just think your like every other guy... take things one step at a time bro. Goodluck!!
    Last edited by KristiBell; 06-29-2012 at 08:04 AM.

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    Default Re: Ask a girl out with no Car

    I forgot to mention that over this past month I have had a few little interactions with her. The last one involved her when she was cruzing the store signing shoppers up for this coupon program and I was about 30 feet away from her and I gave her a smile that and head gesture that implied I wanted to talk to her so she walked up to me.

    I open with saying that I thankfully got my wallet returned with everything in it and she says that's awesome. I had bad body language facing directly at her not saying much and as the conversation died down she brought it back up by asking me if I was apart of this stupid coupon program.

    I initially was about to say I don't want any of that sh1t but I was chill and let her run her mouth about it. After singing me up (tricky bastard ;0) I stalled and she ended the interaction and walked quickly away looking pissed off like I was supposes to say something.

    I should of cut my losses and said "lets cut the bullsh*t, your cute and I want to take you out sometimes.

    OK so I'm busy today but tomorrow I think I will attempt some type of quick one liner and then I'll F*ck off.

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    Default Re: Ask a girl out with no Car

    I think that going with the "let's cut the bullsh*t, you're cute and I want to take you out sometime" would work best. But I'd leave out the "let's cut the bullsh*t" and make it less like a date and more like just going out. Something like "Hey, some friends and I are going to _____ (some event, bar, etc.) this weekend, you should join us!" Obviously said enthusiastically and with a smile. If she says yes, sure, whatever, get her number and tell her you've got to go but you'll call her.

    Since you frequent the place I think that it would be best to keep it as something more casual than directly implying a date, even though it's obvious what your intentions are. This way if she denies the request you can still go to the shop without he feeling awkward.

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    Default Re: Ask a girl out with no Car

    considering the last post I made does anyone else have the same thoughts as knight? I have such little time to do proper game I am not sure if it is a good idea to just do a super quick set and dive for the number/day 2 invite.


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