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    Default Re: Best way to open a woman who is walking toward you on the street?

    With day game, (especially concerning women on their way somewhere) you're not going to have a lot of time to keep a conversation going.

    Your "transition" needs to be your "cause", or reason for deciding to approach & stop her.

    Most likely you're only going to have a minute, maybe two, if she's walking down the sidewalk, headed somewhere.

    So realistically you need to be quick & decisive. "Shock & Awwwwww" kinda needs to be your Mindset. The "shock" part being: something to get her attention. followed by, something to sweep her off her feet in a sense; making her think "Awwww, that is SOOOO sweet & unexpected".

    I've personally just started to understand that part.... (at least I think) but I haven't had much time to start testing different ideas yet.

    But I know that you're under a REAL time constraint in instances like this.


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    Default Re: Best way to open a woman who is walking toward you on the street?

    One that I use to use when I was just overcoming Approach Anxiety (and I woudlnt actually try to get much more out of the conversation than just the opening) is: oh hey how are you!?! (she looks at you as if to say I'm sorry do we know each other, so you proceed to say) Your the one from (such and such a concert) on friday right? (she says no, no sorry, you say) "Oh, its ok, you should have gone it was a really awesome show! Do you know that band?/are you into that kind of music?/what kind of music are you into?

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    Default Re: Best way to open a woman who is walking toward you on the street?

    I agree with Anelka you have to be direct it you want better results, I often use the cocky funny approach but ask open questions to get her to the hook Point fast because time is limited the key is to escalate quickly.

    I don't like using the "Can I have directions?" I think you have to adjust it to the situation but for example if a guy was pulling a suitcase along nearby I would brush her to one side saying "Look I just saved your life" as soon as she responds even if it's just a thankyou thats when you have one chance to gain her attention. In the past I've said "Your the best girl I've seen on this street in 10 minutes I have to talk to you" or "You look familiar, just like my next girlfriend".
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    Default Re: Best way to open a woman who is walking toward you on the street?

    Sinister gave a really good answer!
    I think that asking for directions or restaurants is a good way!

    If you act nicely and get a good conversation you can go to next step and ask if she can show the way there!

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    Default Re: Best way to open a woman who is walking toward you on the street?

    Quote Originally Posted by anelka112 View Post
    indirect won't work on the streets. ever.. unless the girl already has attraction for you she will just tell you x x x location then move on...


    you have to have balls and go direct.. in my experience after 200 sets in the streets i know what im talking about..

    indirect is about 1/30 chance that she will engage you in a proper way. direct you have atleast 50% chance that she will engage you in a positive way so you can take the conversation forward. for shy girls expect it to be awkward and difficult. this is why i prefer to go for girls with tatoos and more direct body language. shy girls are difficult and more for the advanced PUA who knows how to open them up.
    Hes asking for opening lines here not an OMG your the man I want to marry lines. They dont exist.

    A simple approach is the way to go every time. If you go direct you are risking a lot. Such as the number one no no, looking like a total creeper with no life but to try and hit on women on the sidewalk. Hey great idea.

    The reason you asking for directions or something along those lines is because unless she is a stuck up member of society it will force her to reply. Chances are if she has the time to reply then you have 3-5 minutes at a minimum to game her. Unless your somewhere in the business district of a major city people arent too busy for you to pull. The key here is to not make the question short ended. Look below for an example.

    Quote Originally Posted by Nox08 View Post
    First post here.

    So if I go direct, how do I transition? Chances are she will be on her way somewhere and is in a rush to get there. How do I keep the conversation going once Ive stopped her?
    To continue on the transition would go something like this:

    Lets say your somewhere downtown in a normal sized city. Think of a place that is clear across town that will require her to put some thought into the answer.

    PUA: Excuse me can I get a couple minutes of your time, Im trying to get directions to 'x restaurant'?

    HB: Oh sure. You take a left here and a right there and go down for x miles and another left here and blah blah blah.

    PUA: It was recommended to me by a couple of friends as a good place to take my mom or girlfriend (whatever you want to put there). Have you been there before?

    Transition 1
    HB: (If Yes)

    PUA: Ok great (pretend to walk away) Oh one more thing do you have a recommended favorite dish?

    Transition 2:
    HB: (If no)

    PUA: Are you a local? I would much rather have the information come from someone local. My friends are from (make up a place not too far but far enough)'

    HB: Im a local or not a local... blah blah blah...


    In both transitions you can move into a Fluff conversation of whether this type of food is their favorite, where theyre from, etc. Its threading other topics into the conversation. If you get a girl on the streets time will fly by and she will talk forever.

    The end goal is to be the one to say Im in a hurry gotta go. Just more PUA than that. But before departing get the n close. You will almost never get anything better than an N close on the streets. If you get beyond that in a casual encounter I take my hat off to you.

    To throw her for a loop after the N close call her as your walking away. Something along the lines of oh I forgot to ask, blah blah. This allows you to continue comfort building.

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    Last edited by sinister; 07-24-2012 at 03:01 PM. Reason: Smiley face not wanted

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    Default Re: Best way to open a woman who is walking toward you on the street?

    This last one is alrgiht, with the right delivery and frame and body language, and of course a custom fit to your personality, with a joking/bantering to go with it, it will work. But one thing, dont ever ask for a minute or two of their time. Thats who street hustlers with SOB stories start their conversations, which end with asking for 5 dollars to go get some gas for a daughter they left in their broken down car. Everyone who lives in a city knows to keep walking when someone asks for a minute of their time.

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    Default Re: Best way to open a woman who is walking toward you on the street?

    See the difference in street game and a street hustler is astronomical. If you have the wrong body language then you may come off as a street hustler. If you are of good appearance and seem harmless then you will be fine. The reason you only ask for a minute or two is to establish a FTC. Someone in a hurry or pretending to be in a hurry will be more willing to stick around if they know it isnt going to take forever. Of all time an FTC is important, street approaches would be the time.

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    Default Re: Best way to open a woman who is walking toward you on the street?

    I was out recently with two female friends, and I asked them what was the best way to approach women in the daytime, and they both agreed that the Direct Approach is the best. They said women do not like "making small talk" or prevarication. They said to use this strategy:

    1. Go up to a girl, keep arms down by your side, no fidgeting, no touching face, no hands on hips, just have an open body langauge.

    2. Very important: Smile and make eye contact. Do not deviate eyes during interaction.

    2. Say: "Hey I like your (bag, earnings, bracelet, tattoo, etc), but NO compliments on attractiveness.

    3. Immediately after the compliment, suggest meeting for a drink after work at a specific place at a specific time (or a coffee later in the day). Always have a specific destination and time in mind, because women like men to have a plan.

    4. Do not ask for her number. Take it if she offers it.

    5. She will say yes or no, but my friends said that guaranteed, the girl will be flattered and respect you for your effort. So it's a win-win all around.

    I was going to try this on Friday, but I still suffer from fear of rejection. I am still not over the hump yet in terms of day game.

    Peace Out.

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    Default Re: Best way to open a woman who is walking toward you on the street?

    The question is how to open someone walking to you on the street. Not day approach someone in a coffee shop.

    @Inception your female friends may prefer a direct approach. But if your trying to pick up a female during the night or the day, you have to be able to convince them to bounce to a new location at some point in time with you. If your direct and talk about her purse or necklace or whatever your still making small talk. So why not make it more interesting and funny. A conversation about a purse unless your extremely metro will phase out really fast and then you will be stuck in a stall of conversation. The other problem is that you asking her to meet you elsewhere the way your female friends say to do will come off as too forward and creepy. Unless your on the know of purses and jewelry your opener will be a dead topic in no more than 1-2 minutes. And their is no way, especially being an entry PUA that you will convince an HB to meet you somewhere with so little attraction and comfort built.

    You have to do something that requires the HBs input such as asking their advice. The best way to get her to stick around and chat is to make it something she is interested in such as shopping or doing something sweet for "mom". The very reason I gave a few street openers I have used in the past. Personally I only focus on day game because I dont like loud music in clubs and bars.

    You can try the direct approach if you want. But like I previously stated you wont be able to get the time required to get her to bounce or to Number Close.

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    Default Re: Best way to open a woman who is walking toward you on the street?

    Sinister made some great points!

    It's the same advice/approach I tell guys to take, when they're working the "online game".

    Not every girl is the same... so you have to know how to adjust your opening strategy, in order to have success.

    day game is no different than night game, & no different than online game: (as far as all of them requiring different techniques; depending on the individual girl.)

    What works for one girl, may not work for the next one... and so on. So, you need to pay attention & be able to adapt, based on circumstances & cues they give.


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