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    Default Re: Rapport Building Technique

    I figure it might be good to leave her hanging. Sticking with my original example... we're wrapping up the evening and i say if i could go anywhere i'd go too wherever. We talk and as we say bye, i say 'oh u didnt tell me where you would go? Well, its late so hold that thought. But i def want to know so dont forget!'

    I was thinking that something like this would help me remain in her mind. Then one day when i'm bored, i text her and continue. And if she forgot what i asked, i can neg her. Lmk wat u think.

    Also... sorry for all the questions but how do u reward? I am pretty lost on how to do that. And do i do cocky funny while rewarding? Like 'because you were good i'll pick u up next time or whatever'

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    Default Re: Rapport Building Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    I figure it might be good to leave her hanging. Sticking with my original example... we're wrapping up the evening and i say if i could go anywhere i'd go too wherever. We talk and as we say bye, i say 'oh u didnt tell me where you would go? Well, its late so hold that thought. But i def want to know so dont forget!'

    I was thinking that something like this would help me remain in her mind. Then one day when i'm bored, i text her and continue. And if she forgot what i asked, i can neg her. Lmk wat u think.

    Also... sorry for all the questions but how do u reward? I am pretty lost on how to do that. And do i do cocky funny while rewarding? Like 'because you were good i'll pick u up next time or whatever'

    Thanks X-MAN
    -Yes sure that's a good idea if u do it like that it will help u get her back in state.
    -U're reward (pull) should be along the same lines as u're push so put u're hand on her shoulder look her straight in the eyes genuine smile and say: " thats much better"
    -Anytime!
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    Default Re: Rapport Building Technique

    Hey guys here is a new routine for you:
    The House:

    Tell the HB to imagine herself standing inside a house. As she is standing there, 5 things need her immediate attention:
    1-A baby is crying.
    2-The phone is ringing.
    3-Somebody is knocking on the door.
    4-Water is running in a sink.
    5-Clothes are hanging outside to dry and it's starting to rain.

    Ask the hb the order and explain to her that they are her priorities in lifecuz each one is a probleme:

    1-Is family.
    2-Is her love life.
    3-Is her friends.
    4-Is money.
    5-Her carrer.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Rapport Building Technique

    Reminds me of the cube. Ahhhh, good times.
    Isolate. Escalate. Penetrate. Again and again.

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    Default Re: Rapport Building Technique

    how is that like cube.?

    this like the NLP Values Test about 2 lovers seperated by a river.

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    Default Re: Rapport Building Technique

    "People usually won't resist cold reads since they are ambiguous, yet sound true to the listener. She will feel like you understand her, so she will open up even more to you. She will feel like u guys connected on a deeper level. It is easy to talk to someone whome you have commonalities with. "

    Going to tell me the cube doesn't do this? Coming up with ambiguous statements to build rapport and develop a deep connection with her based off of what? Answer: A fake scenario. OP lists four different clear examples and promotes making up scenarios for the girl to pretend that she's in.

    OP: "There are times when you are very energetic and outgoing, and other times you just like to chill." <---- Can't even count how many times I've came up with statements like that when interpreting a girl's Cube
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    Default Re: Rapport Building Technique

    Cube is elaborate and long - where u assign meaning to objects to cold read the personality of the girl.
    1) since u said A and A had B C D properties - u r X

    Xavier's House is pretty quick cold read of someone's values:
    1) since u placed B over A, u feel that B is more important than A.

    how did u apply your last summary using Xavier's House.?

    which of the 5 values that a girl arranged would ellicit u to say:
    "There are times when you are very energetic and outgoing, and other times you just like to chill".?

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    Default Re: Rapport Building Technique

    Just wanted to say that this is was a very nice read. cold reading has been something I've been doing since I started PU awhile back and it works wonders.

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    Default Re: Rapport Building Technique

    What I am going to do now is give you a standard reading, which will, almost without alteration, fit at least eighty five percent of the people you meet, also. It does not sound ambiguous. I think when you have read it, that it can apply to you, and your lifestyle, so here it is:
    Before I talked to you, I must confess that you appeared to be the friendly type of person, and in fact you trust people too much sometimes. In fact someone has let you down recently, because of what you said or what you told him or her. But you as always will jump up, and get on with your life, and put it down to experience.
    Like I said you are the friendly type of person, but you have been hurt more than once by people you trusted. Now you are more careful about
    the friends you pick. In fact you have a small circle of good friends, and you value their friendship, as I am sure they value yours.
    The trouble is you cannot relax very easily, in fact you are under more stress than normal at the moment, and I feel this is due to taking other peoples problems on board.
    You should step back from life a little, now and then, and see yourself from a distance. This will give you a better perspective of yourself, and help you to stop making mistakes. As you are aware, the better you know yourself, the better you can deal with life’s problems.
    However you do sometimes make rash decisions, and you made one recently, were you spent some money foolishly. Still, we all make that mistake from time to time. You do seem to worry over little things in life. Also on things that never happen. You need to believe in your own ability a little more, because you have more potential than what you think.
    One of your weaknesses is putting things off that you should get done. This is a weakness you should try to correct, after all remember procrastination is the thief of time. It is due to this that you find yourself rushing around, and never having enough time for yourself. This makes you anxious, and uptight, and then you cannot relax.
    There is some person in your life just now that influences you. They are sensitive and imaginative, and their influence will be a good thing for you. This person has only recently come into your life, but already you are feeling that this relationship will develop. But you have some misgivings about a relationship you are already in.
    I can see a trip over water for you; very soon, it may be a trip you have planned. You will have a very pleasant time, and you will meet new friends, in a place you have never visited before.
    Someone will phone you next week and ask for some advice from you. I have a feeling friends often ring you and ask for your advice. You will meet an old school friend in about three weeks. It is someone you have not seen for years. They will have some good news for you, and also some bad news from the past,
    I don’t know whether you are aware, but you have got some psychic ability, and I feel you should try to develop this. In fact you have had a
    psychic experience just recently, and you are wondering just what to make of it.
    You have a minor illness coming up. It is nothing much to worry about, but it will come at a very inconvenient time. You should consider changing your diet, to avoid recurrences.
    This year has not been such a profitable year for you, but, things are changing, and the coming year will be a good one, and there is some advancement either in your career, or your personal life.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Rapport Building Technique

    Thanks for this post, it helped a lot


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