Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 4 of 4
  1. #1
    romeog117 is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 63, Level: 1
    Level completed: 26%, Points required for next Level: 37
    Overall activity: 0%
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Posts
    3
    Points
    63
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default What would you do to get old friend to come to wedding?

    I want to ask an old friend from college to a wedding coming up. I lost her phone number a couple years back but we have gotten back in contact on facebook through a few messages back and forth but never in chat. I've always been attracted to her. How would you approach the situation,I could see how asking her through a message on facebook (not an email or in chat) could be easily ignored or seem creepy. I also have the phone number to where she works from doing some business with some of her colleagues, again could come off creepy.

    I have a good idea of what I should do but I like having options and want to see if my studying and reading of these forums has paid off at all.

    -RomeoG

  2. #2
    LittleJoshy2J is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 174, Level: 3
    Level completed: 48%, Points required for next Level: 26
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Posts
    11
    Points
    174
    Level
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    17

    Default Re: What would you do?

    Message her on Facebook sayin youve lost your old phone / got a new phone and lost all your contacts and need her number again.

    Maybe say enough of this Facebook talk, we need to catch up for a drink or 2 and see how she reacts before asking her to a wedding.

  3. #3
    FauxPas is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,086, Level: 18
    Level completed: 86%, Points required for next Level: 14
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Location
    Seattle, Wa.
    Posts
    111
    Points
    1,086
    Level
    18
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    55

    Default Re: What would you do?

    FauxPas here. Little Joshy2J has some excellent suggestions! My thoughts have always been women are more 'into' going to weddings than guys are. You are more likely to be on 'show' and 'presented' to family, friends, and others they respect. So it's definitly not a first date situation. However weddings are a great place to meet women. For some reason they are way more receptive to meeting men there. Having droned on I think it's very important to have a meet and greet as LittleJoshy2J suggested, at the very least, unless she also got an invite. If that's the case you are golden. Work it at the wedding with her. Good luck, good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.

  4. #4
    romeog117 is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 63, Level: 1
    Level completed: 26%, Points required for next Level: 37
    Overall activity: 0%
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Posts
    3
    Points
    63
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: What would you do?

    Quote Originally Posted by LittleJoshy2J View Post
    Message her on Facebook sayin youve lost your old phone / got a new phone and lost all your contacts and need her number again.

    Maybe say enough of this Facebook talk, we need to catch up for a drink or 2 and see how she reacts before asking her to a wedding.
    Definite good Ideas.

    The wedding is not a family wedding, its a mutual college friend wedding that I'd normally go stag too. But everyone got a +1 meaning the pickings will be slim to none. Unless you want to game some poor saps date. Limited time frame to RSVP increases the urgency but if she doesnt get to go she doesnt get to go no biggie.

    Thanks for the advice.


Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com