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    Default How To Approach In Clubs?

    Hey guys.

    So, I've read Kino's club guide and it's brillian stuff. Only thing is I'm not sure on approach angles and stuff. Is that relevant or am I just over thinking it?

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: How To Approach In Clubs?

    go from the side or front. Don't hesitate.

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    Default Re: How To Approach In Clubs?

    Zee's right, the only real rule is don't approach from the back. It makes you seem sneaky and cowardly and people just straight up don't like it.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: How To Approach In Clubs?

    Its better if you manage to become the life of the party. There's a chance they will see you and you will have social proof. So they will be more receptive when you do approach.

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    Default Re: How To Approach In Clubs?

    Thanks guys. Guess I was over thinking it lol. Yeah, I know not to approach from behind. That never goes well lol. social proof is always something I go for too. I guess the missing component is what you said about not hesitating, Zee. I think I hesitate too much. In a quieter environment where I can speak, I have no hesitation in approach at all, but club game throws me.

    Any ideas What to do when I've approached?

    £: GeMiNi :&

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    Default Re: How To Approach In Clubs?

    hmm.. keep conversation going (not an interview style), keep your good posture, joke a little etc to create more comfort, increase Kino, increase eye contact (check if she is interested or looks away when eye contact, or takes your hands off when you touch etc)

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    Default Re: How To Approach In Clubs?

    Believe it or not most people don't mind being approached. As long as your body language isn't invasive (turn away while talking, body rocking) they will at least exchange a few words with you. And honestly if they are cold about it then just think that there is something wrong with THEM and that they are missing out on a good time, then move on to the next set. Remember this is a Mindset so afterwards you may want to reflect if there was something you could've done different in your approach, but understand that not everyone is approachable.

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    Default Re: How To Approach In Clubs?

    Thanks for all the advice guys .

    Thing is, on a dance floor in a loud club, talking isn't hugely possible. If I can converse, I'm fine, of I cant it throws me.

    £: GeMiNi :&

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    Default Re: How To Approach In Clubs?

    use mystery's give em the bird opener aka finger opener basically you
    PUA: give her the middle finger do you know why you suck ?
    HB: no
    PUA: because i been sitting here for 10 minutes wanting to meet you i don't know why yet i mean your very attractive but beauties common but you miss popular have been surrounded by all our friends so i cant come and met you and thats why you suck so who are you
    HB: .....
    PUA: and thats especial because
    this is only for HB10s

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    Default Re: How To Approach In Clubs?

    if its a loud club you couldn't even say your name loud enough :P so she won't hear all the sentence, but only see your middle finger ..


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