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    Andres790 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default why not give your name inmediately to a girl?

    I read in "The Game" that you are not supposed to give a girl our name instead you have to wait for her to ask you, but i dont understand what is the science behind these, i am reading some other books about conversational skiills and they actually recommend to exchange names at the beggining of the interaction. Can someone explain?

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    Default Re: why not give your name inmediately to a girl?

    It's alright to give out your name first when interacting with a woman. However if you manage to hold it off and she asks without provocation, it is a very good sign that she is interested. It's like a bulb goes off in her mind "This guy is interesting and I just realized I don't know who he is." It's just a wild card you keep up your sleeve for backup, but you can use it whenever you like. There are other ways to tell she is interested.

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    Default Re: why not give your name inmediately to a girl?

    Yeah what Batman said. I don't chime in a lot cuz by time I get on this site everythings been answered but I'd like to add that not giving your name from the outset makes the interaction more casual, ya know, just two people making small talk. Also, u should always want to go in with assumed rapport, like u 2 know each other already; thus holding off on the name thing, don't even ask for her name.


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