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    Default First date with this girl in 6 hours

    Hey guys im at a first date with this girl tonight .. In 6 hours actually , I don't really know anything about her , I met her on a job didn't speak to her but someone else gave me her number .. Blah blah blah were goin out tonight . .. Im meeting her at 6 and were going to her friends house party who I also don't know :/, little nervus but it's an experience and I'm sure I'll come out better for It .

    But I wanna know a few games to play with her to make the whole thing go smoother , maybe certain questions or statements I could throw in if I'm stuck . E.g if you coul punch anyone who would it be ? .. Stuff like that , just need abit of help really cos I'm trippin balls haha .. Cheers guys

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    Default Re: First date !...

    Ehhh. the situation is a little off for me. I wouldn't consent to going to a house party if a) I have never spoken to her other than texts, and b) it's her friends house party... but a shot is a shot none the less.

    It might be tricky, reason being is that it is going to be all her friends so she may either do 1 of 2 things. 1) Be nice and host you and show you around and stick around with you, or 2) she will be off wandering and hanging out with her friends.

    It all really depends on the girl. How did she come across for you to go to this house party? Was she "begging" you to go? Did she just kind of casually mention it? Why did someone else give her your number? (seems kind of not Alpha per se).

    I only ask because it helps paint a picture.

    I wouldn't go with the "who could you punch.." question. It makes you seem violent.

    The best way to go about this is to be befriend all her friends. Be cordial and nice to her, but go mingle with everyone. Typically at house parties people play drinking games, so join in on them. Ask her to be a partner, or verse her (friendly competition never hurts and it can be extremely playful).

    You have to establish yourself with a more alpha role in this environment so everyone views you as being a real fun guy.

    Whenever I meet girl's im dating or seeing and they introduce me to her friends, I ALWAYS make sure that her friends think I am the funnest and coolest guy. I make joke of situations and I always exhibit a fun time.

    IE) A few weeks back, met up with a girl from HS i have not seen in years. Hung out briefly a night prior as we were in the same area. The next day she texts me to go out to a bar with her and her friends. I was reluctant at first because the situations aren't always ideal. However, I did go.

    Ended up ALL her friends loved me. I danced with them, I joked with them, bought one of them a drink. I didn't ignore the girl I was there to see, but I wasn't attached to her hip. You have to establish, in a sense, that you are extremely comfortable enough to be on your own (because in the situation you are going to, you might be).

    Ask fun questions. I love to people watch. If this is a huge party, use that to your advantage. I like to "make up" stories about people. Like if you are on a date and there are people at a bar/restaurant, etc, I like to have her and I make a back story about the couple or people. It creates a sense of bonding because you are working together to create this fantasy story about the people.

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    Default Re: First date !...

    Hey thanks for the reply, as for the picture painting I was working at a school I'm a plumber, had a job there to fix there taps .. She was working behind reception and took me to the class room , didn't say anything to her I no not very alpha but I was just working , the teacher was hinting that she was single and I said yeah she looks cute, so she took down my name and said shell pass it on for her to add me on Facebook ... Week later I went back to fix the tap again didn't say anythin to her , bit of aa to be honest I'm pretty new to this , the teacher comes in and gives me the receptionists number ,,

    As for the house party invite it was just me being cheeky by her mentioning what she was doing Friday and me saying oh so where's my invite ? .. But after that she offered to pick me up and then text me again saying she'd pick me up and we'd get the bus to the party ..

    She sounds pretty attracted but I wanna make sure I don't blow it by getting nervous and blank conversation .. I wanna have a fun night but I think I need help with what sort of subjects to talk about if I get stuck .. I'm over thinking thing probably but for ecample when we're in the car what sorta topics do I bring up ? .. How long shes been driving ? Nice car ? Haha pure AFC but that's all thats floating around my head !

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    Default Re: First date !...

    Don't mention the car. Just have a conversation. Be casual and fun. What have you guys talked about during texts? Any inside jokes yet? Bring them up... Or, you can always joke about how you are going to bust out your amazing dance moves and hope she can keep up. Keep things light and jokingly sarcastic. Mention something silly like, "There isn't going to be any animal sacrificing rituals at this party right?"

    You can honestly talk about anything, but as long as you can exhibit confidence, you are good... I like to look through a girls music collection, typically on her i-pod or whatever and jokingly say, "You can figure out a person by the music library they have... and i am SO judging you right now." This has to be all said and done in a joking/confident manner though.

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    Default Re: First date with this girl in 6 hours

    thats great advice, just confident and charming.. ill do my best, and ill deffo use what youve said thats brilliant. is there anything else i should be thinking of, i wish i knew some dhv games like syles cube or palm reding but i dont, any tips ?

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    Default Re: First date with this girl in 6 hours

    2 hours left to go ! . im kinda scared right now ill be honest, but i know ill come out better for it just hope theres no awkward silences

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    Default Re: First date with this girl in 6 hours

    You're on the date right now, so it's a bit late to wish you good luck, but I'm doing so anyways.

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    Default Re: First date with this girl in 6 hours

    Thanks Virgil my night was amazing I feel like I did great I kiss closed the girl I was after and I was the life of the party I felt like I did great thanks for the help guys

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    Default Re: First date with this girl in 6 hours

    Awesome Job... everything can be taken as a learning experience. So good job.

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    Default Re: First date with this girl in 6 hours

    Good job, man! I'm glad Mr8Hyde6's advice worked out for you.


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