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    Default Re: Kino's Solo Gaming Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    Hey Kino, thanks for another great thread. Is this about sarging in a club setting, or will it work in a bar as well?

    btw what is a kokology thread ?

    It seems some of this stuff might be a bit advanced for me. Can't wait for your book.
    This can work two ways, and yes I know it is a violation of the rules but for some reason it works extremely well if you preface it the right way.

    Hey, where is "blank" (another close by local bar)? I am supposed to meet a friend, either here or there but he got caught up at work." then you can stay or bounce at your option.

    Also, my buddy uses this one in bars. Only bars... He says, I'm waiting for a friend, and until he arrives I'm looking for some good conversation. If she says yes, and they usually do, he buys her a drink. This guy is a star PUA and he knows all the rules, but for some reason in this situation, it works like a charm.

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    Default Re: Kino's Solo Gaming Advice

    btw what is a kokology thread ?

    It seems some of this stuff might be a bit advanced for me. Can't wait for your book.[/QUOTE]


    Opps, koko is a japanese word meaning, "mind or spirit" ology is the of course the "study of"

    Most PUA's know them as the cube or the strawberry fields but before these were pick up routines, these were a craze in japan. Books, TV shows, ETC. I use others, namely the castle or house of desire.

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    Default Re: Kino's Solo Gaming Advice

    Isn't buying her a drink making him look AFC, because you are jumping through her hoops..or am i wrong??

    Strawberry fields? castle or house of desire? hmmm.. I have a lot to learn..

    Also, how far along are you with your book/program ? and can you hook me up when it's done? :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    Isn't buying her a drink making him look AFC, because you are jumping through her hoops..or am i wrong??

    Strawberry fields? castle or house of desire? hmmm.. I have a lot to learn..

    The castle and house of desire kokology threads of my own design that will be in the book actually. Strawberry fields are quite common.

    Also, how far along are you with your book/program ? and can you hook me up when it's done? :P
    My 2nd camera arrived yesterday, so the video portion and the rest of the fields reports will probably take about 60 days or so and the other elements about another 30, I'm guessing. So 60 to 90 days to answer your question.

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    Default Re: Kino's Solo Gaming Advice

    Thanks Kino, that makes a lot of sense. If you say things that makes them want to know more n hooks them back in, you don't need an FTC.

    Can't wait for your book and video series, I could definitely learn a lot from you, man .

    : GeMiNi :&

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    Default Re: Kino's Solo Gaming Advice

    Kino i was just wondering if u could include the castle of desire kokology game in my thread http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...html#post47786
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Kino's Solo Gaming Advice

    so its interesting reading this because I have a similar situation. I have never crashed and burned because of a wing but, because of my Approach Anxiety I always felt the need for wings, but whenever I have talked to friends or tried to look for wings I will find that they are lame, ignorant, closed minded, self righteous, arrogant, etc. and cant embrace advanced social tactics. So I have ended up being my own strongest wing. However I still am overcoming social anxiety and approaching is still difficult, and once I'm in a conversation it seems to roll and I can even joke and flirt but I can still use some overall mastery to ensure that I am able to approach and close more. Do you have any general advice for solo sarging, and any special techniques you have implemented in being your own wing man?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexualSorcerer333 View Post
    so its interesting reading this because I have a similar situation. I have never crashed and burned because of a wing but, because of my Approach Anxiety I always felt the need for wings, but whenever I have talked to friends or tried to look for wings I will find that they are lame, ignorant, closed minded, self righteous, arrogant, etc. and cant embrace advanced social tactics. So I have ended up being my own strongest wing. However I still am overcoming social anxiety and approaching is still difficult, and once I'm in a conversation it seems to roll and I can even joke and flirt but I can still use some overall mastery to ensure that I am able to approach and close more. Do you have any general advice for solo sarging, and any special techniques you have implemented in being your own wing man?

    I started looking at it as just "being sociable". Instead of having a goal of sarging/pickup, I just had fun meeting people & talking to them; letting the "game" flow naturally instead of trying to "force it".

    It was a lot less intimidating to go in with the attitude of "I'm just gonna talk to these people" than it was to say "I'm going to approach & then transition & so on..."

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    Default Re: Kino's Solo Gaming Advice

    Its so funny that you say that because thats what I have been doing to help with the Approach Anxiety. When there is no goal attached to the socialization there is nothing to get nervous about. And as long as I can relax and have fun I can be social and end up getting done what I want to get done to some degree most of the time. And with time I'll be able to get further. So what are some of your favorite openers?

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    Default Re: Kino's Solo Gaming Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by SexualSorcerer333 View Post
    Its so funny that you say that because thats what I have been doing to help with the Approach Anxiety. When there is no goal attached to the socialization there is nothing to get nervous about. And as long as I can relax and have fun I can be social and end up getting done what I want to get done to some degree most of the time. And with time I'll be able to get further. So what are some of your favorite openers?
    I generally like to make a comment about something she's wearing. (dress, top, shoes, jewelry..etc)
    I'll say "Wow, that's a really cool Blah Blah Blah... " & give her a smile & slight wink.

    Sometimes I start walking away immediately... because it usually makes her think along the lines of:"Whoa, that was cool... & different... and nice... Wait, where's he going? He's not trying to hit on me? Isn't he attracted to me? what's up with this??" And then they usually track me down to introduce themselves & want to chat more.

    But other times, I'll ask her where she got the item I complimented her about.... and when she starts talking about it, her b1tch shield lowers AND she gives me clues to transition to another topic.

    I can continue to comment on her sense of fashion & style.... or switch to shopping, or a place she visited when she got it... etc.

    And from each of those transitional topics, several others will spawn & it becomes like a web, or a network of options.

    AND... you're not the cheesy lame guy asking to buy her drinks, or boring her with the usual questions that everyone else does.



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