You could also try something like this:
"You hate me don't ya?"
When she replies with something along the lines of "What do you mean?" or "What? No I don't" or "Why would you think that?" etc...
You could say "Because you're not dancing with me"
Or "You had several opportunities to come say hello to me, but you just sat there like a stick in the mud". While you smile & wink at her.
Kinda flirty & playful, and not offensive to her, but still a slight neg for "hating" you.
Hmmmm, I'm thinking if we get some more ideas here, there could be some really good stuff to come out of it.