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    Question New Roommate Should I Flirt With Her Now

    So I went looking for a new apartment online. I saw an add about a woman with two kids looking for someone to move in and split the bills.

    So I went over the other day to check it out
    . Huge house, huge yard and a pool. Freakin love it. The woman is 30 years old (im 26) but she is sweet as hell. Funny and very talkative. She showed me around and asked me a bunch of questions. we talked back in forth about what we do and some of our past. even got on the subject of exes somehow.

    Spent maybe an hour hour and a half talking in her kitchen. I to move in on the first when my lease is up. i told her i like the place and ill be ready to move in on the first. she said great and she gave me her numbe rto call or text if any other questions. well she has texted me quite a bit in the past few days asking questions and making jokes and small talk.

    I've even picked on her spelling and stuff and she "lol"s me everytime and tells me not to pick on her. so im moving in on the 1st of august.

    I find her very attractive.

    so my question is:

    should i hold off on any more flirting until i move in? im worried will my flirting cause her to change her mind? should i hold off until i am moved in and see her everyday and slowly get to know her and tease her or should i continue the flirty thing now?

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    Default Re: New Roommate

    i should also not she is flirting back to me. its not just me flirting with her.

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    Default Re: New Roommate

    I would carry on, but at the level you're doing it at now, don't get too carried away. If there's one thing I've learned, even if it has only been recently, is that if you don't make a move when you have the chance, most girls just lose interest way too quickly.

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    Default Re: New Roommate Should I Flirt With Her Now

    Be careful bro, because you still have to live with this woman. Also consider the fact that if you get into a relationship with her, you'll already be living together with a girlfriend and two kids. It seems like a huge jump to me.

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    Default Re: New Roommate

    Quote Originally Posted by Parra View Post
    I would carry on, but at the level you're doing it at now, don't get too carried away. If there's one thing I've learned, even if it has only been recently, is that if you don't make a move when you have the chance, most girls just lose interest way too quickly.
    Hello friendzone! :P You need to be the man, look important, and try to have short "spectacular" conversations with her. End the conv at it's high point. Good luck.

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    Default Re: New Roommate Should I Flirt With Her Now

    I agree with everyone here. Just like any decision, write down the pros and cons: The kids, living with her for a specific period and the relationship potentially going sour is bad for business. What I would do? If I really liked her? I would find another place to live, with the economy the way it is I am sure its not that hard. Then I will tell her that you wanted to move in with her but it was conflict of interest since you wanted to ask her out, then right then and there you ask her out. If she says no, you have nothing over your head and nothing to worry about. If she says yes, you have nothing over your head and nothing to worry about.
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    Default Re: New Roommate Should I Flirt With Her Now

    I'd advise against. I had a friend move in with a female roommate. They hit it off, started fooling around, then when she wanted a relationship and he didn't things got bad. Eventually he had to move out, ended up losing a good deal of money. You've got a great place to live, I'm not sure if it's worth giving up for one girl who you probably won't end up with.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: New Roommate Should I Flirt With Her Now

    wait till u move in. Use Indirect Game let her come to you. when she does tell her that u don't want this affecting u're living situation, this is wrong were roomates.......... she'll want u even more and probably will be okay with a friends with benefits agreement.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: New Roommate Should I Flirt With Her Now

    I'm with Virgil and Bandit on this. You are an alpha male and don't need to jump on every hot tail that walks right in front of you. This will make your situation heavily delicate and living together after you fool around is a big no no. Think with your elevated head, not the one down below. Have standards and let her introduce you to some of her friends maybe. Or better she can be your wingman if you can go out and grab drinks together. Make her a genuine FRIEND.


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