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    Default Examples of openers for women using headphones/phones

    Need some examples of openers for women using headphones/phones.

    Keep on seeing hot women wearing them and i really have no idea how to open.

    Thanks, Elixir

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    Default Re: Examples of openers for women using headphones/phones

    Difficult one Elixir. Ear/headphones are an instant "don't bother me" talisman. Talking on the phone and texting are also difficult to get past.

    That said, difficult isn't impossible.. and I like a challenge.

    Since an audio barrier exists between you both, it certainly gives you an even BIGGER excuse to be STRONG in your approach. Assume its natural for her to stop at your request, and do just that. Get her to stop, chances is are she will. After that, literally choose any opener you wish. I personally would go with something direct, that just how I move.

    In this instance, its all about overcoming that extra obstacle. Which isn't that big of a deal. Just pay extra attention to her other senses, since one is already occupied. Remember, she still has sight and touch which you can use to your disposal.

    Of course, in reality she has the right to keep walking/text/talking on the phone. However they usually stop to listen to what you have to say.

    Be bold, be ballsy. Use those cojones!

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    Default Re: Examples of openers for women using headphones/phones

    I have an approach for situations like this but I dont want to really say what it is. What I can say is that you have to break her attention somehow even if it means doing a majic trick.
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    Default Re: Examples of openers for women using headphones/phones

    What i would do is .. bump into her on purpose but make it look accidental .. and say the following

    PUAuch Im suing you for sexual harassment (very common opener ).. Maybe if you had the earphones off .. would have never got charged for harassment

    HB: Blah Blah

    PUA: (Most guys say here hi my name is .. which is completely wrong) ( she doesn't care to know your name if you just met her 4 minutes ago . what you should say is)
    Im going to need your name and number so i know who to send the bill too.

    HB: blah blah ( she wont give it at first to a random, But dont forget this only a opener .. this is when you start threading and getting comfort levels up)

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    Default Re: Examples of openers for women using headphones/phones

    Only time I've tried was on a bus, went like this:

    PUA: *sits-down-right-in-front-of-her *motions-to-take-out-head-phones
    HB: *complies
    PUA: "Do you wear head phones so people don't talk to you? Are you anti-social? I mean what if there's that one guy on the bus who asks if anybody has an umbrella he could eat? But you just want no part of anyone. *smile"
    HB: "What!? No, I'm not anti social, I just..."
    PUA: "Well now I'm not so sure if I wanna talk to you, apparently looks aren't everything, I figured a cute chick would at least be a little friendly."
    HB: "I have a boyfriend"
    PUA: "Figures. *Run BF Destroyer... *once her guard lowers from the disqualifications* Though I guess maybe you're not so anti social afterall. I'm Autismus *shakes hand"
    HB: "target"
    PUA: "What are you listening to?"
    HB:"Song Name by Band Name"
    PUA: "I should let you get back to your anti-social-ism-ness" *gets up to leave.
    HB: "I'm not anti social! I just like to chill out on my ride home and relax"
    PUA: *Fluff about Yoga, but then I had to hit the ding because my bus stop was there
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    Default Re: Examples of openers for women using headphones/phones

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    Only time I've tried was on a bus, went like this:

    PUA: *sits-down-right-in-front-of-her *motions-to-take-out-head-phones
    HB: *complies
    PUA: "Do you wear head phones so people don't talk to you? Are you anti-social? I mean what if there's that one guy on the bus who asks if anybody has an umbrella he could eat? But you just want no part of anyone. *smile"
    HB: "What!? No, I'm not anti social, I just..."
    PUA: "Well now I'm not so sure if I wanna talk to you, apparently looks aren't everything, I figured a cute chick would at least be a little friendly."
    HB: "I have a boyfriend"
    PUA: "Figures. *Run BF Destroyer... *once her guard lowers from the disqualifications* Though I guess maybe you're not so anti social afterall. I'm Autismus *shakes hand"
    HB: "target"
    PUA: "What are you listening to?"
    HB:"Song Name by Band Name"
    PUA: "I should let you get back to your anti-social-ism-ness" *gets up to leave.
    HB: "I'm not anti social! I just like to chill out on my ride home and relax"
    PUA: *Fluff about Yoga, but then I had to hit the ding because my bus stop was there

    I would definitely like to take this one to the field.
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    Default Re: Examples of openers for women using headphones/phones

    You could also ask her in a playful fun way, "So... what's the most embarrassing song you have on your ipod?" And then tell her something like, "I'll admit that I have a couple Justin Bieber tunes on mine..." (even if you don't).

    But this way it's engaging & humorous, and demonstrates that you're not afraid putting yourself in that semi-vulnerable spot for a moment. Which is helpful for getting a girl to let her guard down & be interactive.



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    Default Re: Examples of openers for women using headphones/phones

    Quote Originally Posted by FLo KT View Post
    I would definitely like to take this one to the field.
    yes! me too!
    but i would proceed little bit defferent after the antisocial opener. something like maybe... ''people are getting more and more distant and isolated form eachother lately. and the world. maybe you missed a lot of things wearing your headphones - what if somebody in front of you was your potential best friend ever and you didnt even notice that person? what if im your potential bes lover ever?? what? doesnt that worry you?
    she could think im crazy, but it could turn out good, most chicks like crazy guys

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    Default Re: Examples of openers for women using headphones/phones

    I'm kind of an asshole, so I would pretend to be over the top screaming at her/freaking out, all the while actually making no sound. Once she removed her headphones I would tell her that I was just f*ckng with her, then introduce myself.
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