Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 5 of 5
  1. #1
    sleeper's Avatar
    sleeper is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 127, Level: 2
    Level completed: 54%, Points required for next Level: 23
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    North Carolina
    Posts
    35
    Points
    127
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    11

    Default What is "flirting?"

    I was a wedding this weekend, and saw a gorgeous blonde, and between aa, and simply not knowing what to say, how do I flirt? I have no concept whatsoever.
    Epitome of AFC, living in AA
    Nobody sucks at life like me

  2. #2
    Link777 is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 932, Level: 17
    Level completed: 32%, Points required for next Level: 68
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Location
    Denver, CO
    Posts
    80
    Points
    932
    Level
    17
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    46

    Default Re: What is "flirting?"

    Hey Sleeper,
    Don't worry man we all start somewhere. Basically flirting is just playful banter with the opposite sex that can imply sexual interest, but doesn't have to. You can read tons of articles on the internet and in books on how to flirt, but basically it's just playful teasing and exchanging of Kino. To start flirting, I would start just poking fun at girl with a smile, and attempting some kino at first. One of my favorite ways to flirt is to make fun of the girl for like 5 seconds then apologize and hug her. Of course I always do this with a big smile so it doesn't come off as creepy of douchey. I would check out some articles on the internet too, flirting also how a lot to do with body language. Hope this helps
    Link

  3. #3
    Colonel Crimson's Avatar
    Colonel Crimson is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 66, Level: 1
    Level completed: 32%, Points required for next Level: 34
    Overall activity: 0%
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Location
    Colorado
    Posts
    4
    Points
    66
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: What is "flirting?"

    Just think of everything she says as an opportunity to tease her or twist what she says into her chasing you. That's the most concise I can make flirting.

  4. #4
    sleeper's Avatar
    sleeper is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 127, Level: 2
    Level completed: 54%, Points required for next Level: 23
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    North Carolina
    Posts
    35
    Points
    127
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    11

    Default Re: What is "flirting?"

    Thanks!! Now I have to figure put what to say haha.
    Epitome of AFC, living in AA
    Nobody sucks at life like me

  5. #5
    Saff Mcgraff is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 134, Level: 2
    Level completed: 68%, Points required for next Level: 16
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    17
    Points
    134
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    11

    Default Re: What is "flirting?"

    Quote Originally Posted by sleeper View Post
    Thanks!! Now I have to figure put what to say haha.
    Not really sleeper. You never have to worry about anything to say but your opener. Sometimes like Tyler Durden says you don't even have to say anything for an opener just use body language. So really once you are in set the words will come all on their own as long as you are not suffering from aa or Oneitis you'll be okay. I know because there was this HB9 I was obsessed with that worked at the Mall. This was back when I was not a PUA but all Gung Ho AFC. I came to see her all the time, never knew what to say, was all AA and Oneitis on her, asked like a wuss for her number, and got rejected hard by her. This was one of the worst rejections ever! She was so pissed. I will never forget what she said, I wrote her a poem and everything.

    Either way you need to stop focusing on ONE girl and start focusing on THE GAME. This is what it's all about. The key is starting out I had exactly the same thoughts as you. (I don't know what to say, too nervous to approach, clammed up and such) So once you start doing approaches in larger numbers you will become more of a natural. I have never really focused on THE GAME till this year and so far this year I have made 10 approaches. Gotten quite a few numbers, breasts rubbing against me, kisses, hugs, got a girl texting me right now I met at the Club. Sadly I have noticed spiritual chicks are very anti-social and hate being approached by Guys but Club/Bar Chicks are very friendly and fun to be around!

    My advice to you is start approaching more since you sound like you need some experience. Me having such a small number of approaches and already having a girl in reserve via text is pretty nice! Sure this chick could still flake on me but usually it doesn't even last this long so I am hoping I can keep my game up. (I'm not ONEITIS on her or AFC just keep pushing to sex and still going out to game other women) My AFC mistake was I would find this one girl I would think is amazing and focus all my soul into getting her. Now I focus all my soul into my game and I am not losing sleep over girls anymore!

    Watch some Keys to the VIP and see real life approaches on youtube which really helped me. Using that knowledge approach the girls you are interested in. Obviously I think sometimes it's good not to approach. I usually go with my gut and observe a woman and it has saved me many a day! One time I was going to approach a 2 set at a strip mall when they went to buy cookies. (No I thought) They passed by again and I just observed them. They were buying cookies for their BF's! I am so glad I went with my gut. Just know you shouldn't approach every girl you are into because there are always potential problems in the way. Another time I almost approached another HB and watched her from afar to see if it was safe to approach and she immediately went to her BF after she passed me! I really trust my gut and if I sense something is up I will back off.

    As far as flirting goes that is the next level for me upping my game. I haven't been kino escalating and will start honing this aspect next time I go out.


Similar Threads

  1. Is it true girls take "kindness" for "weakness"?
    By Bender in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 12
    Last Thread: 01-03-2013, 08:41 PM
  2. "Normal" vs "Abnormal" texting game
    By Saff Mcgraff in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 8
    Last Thread: 08-06-2012, 12:58 AM
  3. Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 06-12-2012, 11:57 AM
  4. Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 06-10-2012, 11:57 AM
  5. Flirting with "confusion"
    By Miko in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 7
    Last Thread: 01-04-2010, 07:45 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com