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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    Bumac's right, you know. If you have ever dreamed about becoming a different man (in a positive sence), this is your shot. If you want to become someone that says anything on his mind, or farks a new girl every week, this is your chance because no one from your community is there to judge on you. Don't let it go to waste.

    Listen, if you've already approached some girls at a party, you're going to be just fine. The first step is the hardest one. Go for what you want, bro, and good luck!

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    got it
    how does going direct work for you?
    i tried on the beach the other day saying hey your fucking gorgeous i got in a five minute convo but i ended it cause the girls were going back to Germany and leaving town in a few hours.
    they were both 9s.
    so i basically said hehe sorry guys nothings gonna happen so bye
    but it takes a lot of will to approach for me and i want to be able to approach anyone natraually with out the guilt. ANY TIPS

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    I think you missed an oportunity for some good practise there. Those girls were going away in just a few hours and they'd never see anyone from where you are now again. More importantly: They'd never see you again. You could have tried to get as far as possible with minimal consequenses. Even if you'd fark up, they'd leave.

    Approaching naturally and guiltless will come with experience.

    Going direct gets me great reactions when I open. I haven't gone much further yet but have enormously improved at direct opening and inner game. I'm going to go for the real thing soon.

    If you're interested in Direct Game - Cody's the man to ask for advice. I can help you out with opening direct, body language and inner game.

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    ok thanks who is cody?

    and is there some mix not too direct not too mystery opinion openers method i should work on?

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    Cody is this awesome guy right here.

    Besides indirect and direct, there's also indirect-direct. Kino's Bombshell Method.

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    Hey man, first off I want to say I love the name. I just hope you have the drive to back it up.

    Going direct is a simple premise, but it's hard to perfect. I know I haven't gotten it down yet. Basically, the idea is to go into a conversation you have with a girl knowing exactly what you want and having every intention of getting it. What that means to you is different, but if you're attracted to her make sure she picks up on it. It takes an incredible amount of confidence (Cody really is the man at this). It'll take time and a lot of practice, but the good news is you've already started. Opening is really what it's all about at your stage in the game, don't worry about anything else at this point. Just start talking to girls you find attractive and try sticking to the 3 second rule.

    As for the religious background, I know what you're going through. It's not easy, especially when you're still tied to your childhood. Hell, I'm writing this from a Christian summer camp. But it is possible and can actually be a lot of fun (the confident cocky attitude really confuses people sometimes). If you ever need any advice on the subject, you need to message me, I can help you out.

    Here's a post that'll give you a great idea what true Direct Game looks like.

    Best of luck man. I'll be keeping an eye on you.
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