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    Default religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    hey guys i would like to know how to start to become amazing with girls. i grew up in a religious environment so i did NOT have any friends that were girls growing up.
    i am a lot of fun and have lots of guy friends
    i have no problem making friends with new random guys but approaching new girls is hard for me.
    though i do go sometimes when i am in the mood and approach women. also when i am with a women that i feel that likes me i am a great flirt-er and allot of fun.but i don't know how to transit the flirting into something real
    hope you guys can help.
    and any way for me to get over the insecurities of no experience with girls because of religion .
    thank you in advance

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    Welcome, bro. You are going to become great with women, no doubt about that as long as you're willing to invest some time and effort. You're already fun, outgoing and social, so you just need to work on approaches themselves.

    This is the place to start.

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    A nice little tip is to find attractive female friends. Become genuine friends with them and not only will they help you with getting other women, but also help you get comfortable around women you find very attractive.

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    Out of curiosity, are you still religious? I homeschooled until my senior year of HS due to a devoutly religious mother so I know what it's like. As BatMan said, make some genuine female friends and they'll help you out a lot.

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    yes i am still somewhat religious which makes my situation all the more different .
    as for making friends with attractive females. i dont know alot of girls and the society that i have grown up in is kinda against the idea
    and of the girls my friends know i try not to get to know well as i find it weird all the guys hitting on the same girls.
    which is why i would love to be able to go up to any girl. and walk away with her number.
    should i try to meet new random girls just to make friends in the beginning.
    guys thanks for all your help and reply

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    Yes I think making friends with random women is a great idea. You never really know the value they can bring. Build up your social network and the women will start to flock to you. Either through your social circle or you get social proof just having women around you. Also if you find them attractive then it will help you become comfortable with attractive women. This is a case of 3 birds with 1 stone.

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    so does that mean that going direct should not be my thing
    as i was reading that this is the only real way to get over my small approach fears for girls

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    I'm not talking about direct or Indirect Game. I mean making genuine female friends. So you are not going to hit on them. The most you will do is light flirting to get the Tension up a bit, but thats all.

    I still feel that direct is a good way to start on women you are actually trying to hit on. This will give you the confidence with women you'll need to then start on some indirect game.

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    no, its perfectly OK to work on your aa by directly engaging girls, we are just saying that by making friends with the girls that your friends know (not necessarily hitting on them) you'll get more comfortable around women in general and as a result you'll be working on your AA that way as well.

    Can I assume that you are still in the same area that you grew up and are concerned with what might get back to your family/friends or did I read you incorrectly?

    If you are in a new area then you have a golden opportunity to be anyone you want to be because no one knows you well enough to know otherwise. Even if you are in the same area but used to only hang out with a specific crowd (a crowd that I would imagine doesn't go out and party much?) then you can still be whoever you want to, its unlikely that paths will cross and by expanding your social circle you will become more confident in general.

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    Default Re: religious childhood no experience but outgoing loud guy

    you guys are definitively right
    as for more about me i am 18 years old from the states but currently in a small all mens school in Africa touring the place (hehe south Africa is amazing)
    so over here i have the option of going out more regulauarly.
    the other week i was at some sick parties but i did approach a few girls
    but i takes some time for me to gather the balls to be a man a
    nd i know its a big lower value spike to be the guy just chilling with my man friends while there are tons of girls in the venue.
    the its a little different building a social circle from scratch here .


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