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    Saff Mcgraff is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What to do if a girl hits on me?

    Recently girls have been hitting on me lately. Like bumping into me, patting my butt, asking me to take them places. It depends because some of them are like HB5's but some of them are like HB7's so I don't know. I am not really that quick on the uptake and I usually turn them down. Just wondering about better heeding the social ques and stuff...

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    Default Re: What to do if a girl hits on me?

    Take every opportunity that comes your way - you never know where it will lead and talking or dating all types of women is good experience. It's also good to observe how women approach men because often they are very direct about it. Can learn a lot from how women approach guys - often they approach them in a way they would also want to be approached.

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    Default Re: What to do if a girl hits on me?

    Whitedragon is right. Try to go out with them to meet other people and if your not interested in any of them then use them as a way to socially validate.

    Best of luck
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    Default Re: What to do if a girl hits on me?

    you are both humans! humans like to socialze, to be accepted, to be interested in!
    u are in big advantage when girl approaches you.
    be happy for that and accept that human being.
    talk to her, be interested. why did she approach, what is on her mind, what does she do...there are lots of questions you can ask. think of what you would like to know and find out - and ask!

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    Default Re: What to do if a girl hits on me?

    It's totally cool if girls are hitting on you.
    That's kind of the whole basis for building attraction in the first place; To get women chasing YOU!

    It's when they stop chasing because they feel like they totally have to under their control, that the attraction begins to wane.

    In the past 3-4 months since I started getting out & making myself available, I'd say 90% of the women I've been talking to or dating, have been the ones to approach me. (mainly with online dating, and because of the way I put my profile together.)

    The profile was the "bait" & they bit the hook, so to speak, by initiating contact & emailing me first.

    So, as far as women being the ones to seek you out?
    It's a wonderful "problem" to have!


    Trust me, it's a GOOD thing!!

    Whatever you're doing, you're doing it right, so keep it up man!


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    Default Re: What to do if a girl hits on me?

    Consider yourself a lucky man!

    And it's like the guys here are saying take every opportunity you have as it's good practice and you'll prob regret in the future if you don't.

    I speak from experience and while I wasn't a guy that girls would hit on I had a few good chances I wasted........

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    Default Re: What to do if a girl hits on me?

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Take every opportunity that comes your way - you never know where it will lead and talking or dating all types of women is good experience. It's also good to observe how women approach men because often they are very direct about it. Can learn a lot from how women approach guys - often they approach them in a way they would also want to be approached.
    This sounds like great advice. OP I wonder if you can pinpoint what it is about this situation that you are unsure about. It sounds like you are doing something right to get this attention. The girls are taking a risk of some sort approaching you so be grateful for that.

    Is it that they are not the girls you yourself would approach, or maybe the fact that they are approaching you puts you off a bit - or maybe you weren't sure how to react to the approach?

    I had an approach earlier this week - less direct, but she came over to talk to me. I was a bit taken by surprise and to be honest wasn't sure how to proceed. I guess its possible she just wanted a friendly chat but it seemed quite deliberate. At first I was thinking - is this a girl I really fancy? I was in a state of indecision, I faltered, wasn't sure how to proceed and let her go. In retrospect I really regret not exploring things further. If only I had read Whitedragon's advice a little earlier....!

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    Default Re: What to do if a girl hits on me?

    Seriously...How is this a problem?
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: What to do if a girl hits on me?

    Have to say I like how our reaction get different when we are the ones hit on. Suddenly we start thinking about whether that's what we want, whether she's good, and all that stuff. Which should actually be our reaction in every approach. Enjoy it, it's your first taste of alphaness

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    Default Re: What to do if a girl hits on me?

    Hahaha. Ahh you guys are great. I think Saff McGraff is thinking about it because its HB5s to 7s approaching him. He wouldnt think twice if a Victoria Secret model approached him. But as others say take this as training.
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