Hi fellow AFC's and PUA's
I went clubbing yesterday for the 4th time this summer. I've had very limited success so far but am just mainly trying to work on my inner game for now.
So last night I danced 'with' 3 different pairs of girls ( erm.. sets??) in a too loud to talk dance club (approx 150 people) around 1-2ish. It had a stage but I didn't dare go on it (there were some people on there but mostly friends it seemed).
The problem is that the sets kind of just ignored me. I felt I was dancing pretty enthusiastically ( I only know about three moves but hey ) but I guess maybe this seemed like I was pulling for attention... I did see one guy just grabbing the hand of a girl who I was dancing next to but she pulled it away and he left..
Ryan DRH (in his dance game book) says that he simply goes straight to the dance floor alone and dances for 15 mins, but this seems to be in direct conflict with the 3-second rule.. there's girls all around, and surely just dancing by myself would make me seem like a loner hehe..
I'm lean and fairly muscular, dress in G-star shirt, t-shirt, belt and jeans with all-star converse shoes and a Swatch.. I would consider myself to be much more in shape and better dressed than most of the other guys there, but I'm only 18 and look younger..
Any tips on whether I should change my approach style? Be more aggressive (physical contact??) or less enthusiastic perhaps? Thanks so much