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    Default Gauging Interest For the Approach

    If I sense an ounce of interest from a girl I approach. PERIOD. At first it was hard for me to read people, but with a certain ammount of practice I have picked up on the subtle cues and learned to gauge a girls interest on the spot.

    1) If a girl holds eye contact with me for more than a second. Woman are socially intelligent creatures and will not risk you approaching them by holding eye contact with you.

    2) You give her eye contact and her eyes instantly hit the floor. This is submissive bodylanguage, not to mention she could be doing it to make sure you don't see her blushing.

    3) If shes standing near you and or constantly coming into your area. Shes doing this hoping you will open her. Woman are under the impression that it is the mans job to move the relationship through the given steps and that includes meeting each other. I have good looking friends and they are rarely if ever approached by woman.

    4) The number one ioi for the approach is a smile. A smile is the most inviting thing you will ever see. You see it, jump in. Its bound to be the easiest set you ever had.

    If a girl doesn't do any of these things than that doesn't mean that she isn't interested. If all else fails assume attraction and go into the set anyways.
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    Default Re: Gauging Interest For the Approach

    Good stuff. A problem I have is when a girl shows interest like this I feel a lot of pressure to talk to her, and it makes me not want to approach. I end up going for the girls not showing me any IOIs because I'm able to do it of my own volition. Usually regret it afterwards because I realize how much easier it would have been.

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    Default Re: Gauging Interest For the Approach

    Quote Originally Posted by chillout24 View Post
    Good stuff. A problem I have is when a girl shows interest like this I feel a lot of pressure to talk to her, and it makes me not want to approach. I end up going for the girls not showing me any IOIs because I'm able to do it of my own volition. Usually regret it afterwards because I realize how much easier it would have been.
    Then that is a problem with your frame. Her doing this is as good as her approaching you. Shes basically saying I want you. You're the prize and you don't have to prove anything to her.
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    Default Re: Gauging Interest For the Approach

    What if women approach you, and start talking to you ??

    or they sit on your table and glance directly at you every few seconds ???

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    Default Re: Gauging Interest For the Approach

    Then, you should have no doubts of your value in comparison to hers. If she approaches you, then you instantly start the interaction with higher value than her.

    You've basically skipped the attraction phase and all you need to do is develope rapport with the girl. Go into wide rapport then deep rapport and develope a connection between the two of you.

    Still remember to spike attraction every once in a while, cause like a baloon filled with air it can deflate over time. But even then, you should be able to get her number in half the time you would normally get it.

    Just keep a smooth low tone of voice. Have relaxed bodylanguage and she'll imagine you have this happen to you all the time.
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    Default Re: Gauging Interest For the Approach

    Quote Originally Posted by 0Rooster0 View Post
    Then, you should have no doubts of your value in comparison to hers. If she approaches you, then you instantly start the interaction with higher value than her.

    You've basically skipped the attraction phase and all you need to do is develope rapport with the girl. Go into wide rapport then deep rapport and develope a connection between the two of you.

    Still remember to spike attraction every once in a while, cause like a baloon filled with air it can deflate over time. But even then, you should be able to get her number in half the time you would normally get it.

    Just keep a smooth low tone of voice. Have relaxed bodylanguage and she'll imagine you have this happen to you all the time.
    I got approached by a HB 9 yesterday, and she was for sure a playette. We started talking and she told me she was a "spicy girl". The sexual chemistry was so high that my body language went total AFC..

    Anyways messed that up, and when i asked her to hang out, she told me "Why we can talk right here", i'm sure i fucked up royally.

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    Default Re: Gauging Interest For the Approach

    bahahaha it happens dude. I blew 2 sets once. Once was a HB8 that started dancing against my crotch for no reason and I didn't know how to react to it. Then an HB9.5 did the same and again I blew it. It happened so damn fast. One did it, I blew it, 2 seconds later the other one and bam! I blew it. That night I was like wtf why can't this happen when I'm in the zone!
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