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    Angry Pick up game critique for girl in stats class!

    Hello,

    I'm taking a statistics class at the local community college, and there's this girl in there that I've been getting multiple IOIs from, and now, 4 weeks into the class (Mon-Thursday), I start to pick up on her, using routines (strawberry fields routine), 5 questions, nickel, penny, dime, trick. Today, after class, she wanted to borrow my book, because she doesn't have one.

    I went home, got the book, waited for her to text me, and sent her a message back 10 minutes later telling her i was on my way but that we were going to play a game. She said "haha no!"

    I came, showed up, and handed her the book, but she was in a hurry because she was working out. I told her i understood she was in a hurry but that we were going to play the game....she backed away a little, but i stood my ground and told her to come closer and play; it'll only take 5 minutes. So i played the strawberry fields game routine with her, and explained her answers, and told her sinnce i predicted it accurately that we should hang out. Note, i didn't close by asking for her number because she had already given it to me, and I entered my name into her phone back as Super Hot guy (my name), and when she called me i defused the awkwardness with "Who the fuck is this? haha"

    Anyway, I told her we should hang out this week, and she said well i can't this weekend, and i stood my ground and said, alright well maybe next weekend. And she said idk, i have a life so i'm pretty busy. I told her that we were going to hang out even so, and that it would be fun. She told me idk...and that she had a boyfriend...so she didn't think she could. I think fucked myself into a hole by saying..come on you can't hang out with a friend? And she said idk...idk if he would like that..and then I just said alright we'll text about it and I left.

    Can someone critique my Pick Up Game and give me some pointers for this situation, future situation?

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    Default Re: Pick up game critique for girl in stats class!

    Im only an amateur at this but it sounds like to me you didnt build enough comfort

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    Default Re: Pick up game critique for girl in stats class!

    Rusty_York:


    What would you have done differently in this situation?

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    Default Re: Pick up game critique for girl in stats class!

    OMG u did A LOT of things wrong let me take u threw it step by step:
    -She thinks u're hot ( u have attraction)
    -u open her and start with these cold reading games (dhv=more attraction) u're good until here
    -did u go home especially to get her the book? If yes, does she know u went especially to get it?(dlv)
    -u send a text we're gonna play a game when all u have done is play games is that all u know how to do? play theese games? (DLV=less attraction)
    -She said 'no' plus she's in a hurry why are u insisting so much are u not an alpha male. An alpha would have understood that she was in a hurry, and he wouldn't have cared (DLV)
    -good that u stood u're ground and didn't follow her (alpha trait=DHV)
    -u tell her u should hang out more (DLV), u tease her answers and u tell her she's trouble and that u shouldn't hang out.
    -it's good that u named u're self super hot guy and that u answered who the fuck is this (C&f= DHV)
    -she said she can't hang out this weel end okay then fuck her why did u have to tell her then next week end (following her=DLV)
    -for the boyfriend thing u use this: http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...technique.html
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    Smile Re: Pick up game critique for girl in stats class!

    Xavier,

    Thank you very much for the critique, I really appreciate it.

    Yes she knew i had gone home to get the book for her, but that's why i texted her with something like yeah i'm coming, but we're going to play a game. I suppose in my mind i said this because I would feel like a tool just being toyed with (going him to get a book just for her, and then dropping it off).

    Honestly i'm very knew to this. I've been with probably around 15-20 girls, but i've never had sex, so I don't consider myself 100% alpha male yet in terms of girls, physically or socially..that's probably why i messed up.


    In your opinion, should I even bother with the bf destroyer thing, or did I crash and burn it already? If not, how should i act toward her now in class?

    Thanks,

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    Default Re: Pick up game critique for girl in stats class!

    If u come face to face with her greet her normally with a friendly smile otherwise freeze her out for a couple of days a week if needed until u start seeing IOI's u need to go indirect in this Freeze Out periode, so dhv indirectly: flirt with other girls, tell DHV stories, take an intrest in people let the hole class know u're a cool fun guy they should get to know and she will pick up on this.
    Keep in mind that u are not DHV ing indirectlly for her u are doing it for u (to grow u're social circle), u were a little intense and not all girls like that so it might not work on her. That's why u need to get IOI's again to proceed, if u get them then Fluff talk a little ask her out if she uses the bf as an obstacle i recoomend u use a yes ladder to get her on the date.
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    Default Re: Pick up game critique for girl in stats class!

    Xavier,

    When you say I was a little intense, do you mean by just sort of leaping from one stage to the next too fast?

    Also, you mentioned earlier about how all I did was play games...I understand this now, but what would you have done differently here?

    Today when I asked her to hang out and persisted it's like i could sense she wanted to but had the boyfriend thing, because she kept saying : 'Why do you want to hang out'. At first i was kind of offended (dhv), but now I understand that it was the boyfriend cockblock. Am i correct in thinking this?

    Also, do you think routines were the best way of going about this, or should I have just used an opener and kept going from there?

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    Default Re: Pick up game critique for girl in stats class!

    -Yes forward and too persistent.
    -First off u shouldn't have went home just for her, u should have said 'i don't feel like going' if she persistes u say that u don't want to walk drive/alone... indirectly make her come with u.
    -Say u made the mistake of going alone to get it for her u don't text her i want to play a game, before it wasn't wrong.
    -i wouldn't have texted anything other than where are u?
    -yes the bf is a cockblock before i continue u asked her out after i told u to do a freeze out? WTF bro!? plus i told u, do a yes ladder to get the date or answer with i think u're cool and i want to get to know u, i understand that u have a bf so let's just be friends(u friend zone her=dhv)
    -u mean opinion opener the fact that u guys talk means that there was an opener. No i don't like opinion openers for Direct Game which is what this shoul be. It is wrong to use routines especially canned ones in college cuz girls might talk and might figure out u're game and even that u're a PUA.
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    Default Re: Pick up game critique for girl in stats class!

    Xavier,

    I didn't ask her out...

    Everything i told you today was just that I asked her to hang out that's all.

    DandyLion


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