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    Saff Mcgraff is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Interactions between Men & Women

    I was just wondering why girls talk and talk and talk but it seems like when I approach them I do all the talking. When I text them I do all the talking. When I am on the phone again I am doing all the talking. This is the weirdest thing because women talk so much as it is. Now I understand a GF talking your head off when you get to that point and such. Just wondering why women don't open up to me more and I feel like I have to work so hard to get them just to talk to me. This doesn't make sense. So I know girls love talking to guys but I am trying to get an understanding why I have to work for everything.

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    Default Re: Interactions between Men & Women

    In the pre-dating phase we do all the talking and the taking of initiative. At least until the sex. Girls know that. I've had a girl that was friends with my sister tell her that I was very quiet (saw her once, had her #), while I initiated every conversation we ever had. This is just regarded as a general rule which all women know.

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    Default Re: Interactions between Men & Women

    I don't really buy ^ that. To get girls to talk, you have to make them feel comfortable and interested. I love asking girls questions about their life, and when they lock down I tease them lightly or turn my attention to someone that will open up.

    These are non-flirtatious openers, but they work for getting people in conversations:
    "So what other classes are you taking"
    On a Monday: "Man I had a great weekend. Blablabla happened. How was yours?"
    "So what do you think of the teacher?"

    Usually, people like to talk about what's going on in their lives. I was in the Navy, I talk about it all the time and people ask me questions. When someone talks to me about whatever's going on in their lives, I think of questions to ask them.

    Memory will help you out a lot. "So what happened with the job interview you were talking about?" "So did you end up going to blablabla movie? How was it?"

    Pay attention to things that affect everyone. In work, I used to be super introverted and I selectively listened for things that affected me only. How limiting to conversation!

    Lightly punish girls when they lock down. Tease them. "You did nothing over the weekend? I can't go that long without eating or sleeping, you probably set a record somewhere." With a grin on your face. Stupid shit that keeps the conversation going.

    If they are spending time on their cellphone rather than you, just don't give them attention. Engage other people, she's just some girl. Don't take it personally but there are better ways to spend your time than giving attention to someone who isn't doing the same for you.

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    Default Re: Interactions between Men & Women

    Sometimes the girls don't talk much because they are scared to say something that lowers her value, this usually happens if you come across as too strong and high value, but if you open up first and tell her about some foolish things you have done, she will do the same too.


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