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Thread: Sexual tension or rejection/disinterest

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    Question Sexual tension or rejection/disinterest

    Hello
    This is a conversation between this girl and I. We have known eachother for a few weeks, and run together bike together, and she has been over a few times to watch movies but nothing's happened nor have i tried anything because she's a really christian girl and i haven't really felt right about trying anything, not sure if I should.

    Could someone tell me if this conversation is a little bit of sexual Tension arising between us, or it's just her not interested/ me being rejected?


    Also, i don't think i'm in the friends zone, because we rarely talk other than when we're going to meet up to bike, or to run.

    If this is sexual tension, could someone give me some suggestions as to what to do to move things forward?

    Me:While the majority satisfice for mediocrity on the basis of luck, the minority value success purely on difficulty and persistence". -

    Her:
    bueno! but I believe you would be in the majority…"I want to do as little amount of work as possible for the most amount of money" ...

    Her:
    also, this is sebastian(my cat, not hers) if he died. Theodore Gericault ead Cat
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    Me:
    You remember intricacies of our relationship....this is a really special moment in the seduction process

    Her:
    oh dear.
    dont even think about it sparky

    Me:
    I haven't thought about anything.
    It would be stagnant and boring to entertain such thoughts.

    Her:
    yes. 2 unbearable things

    Me:
    Yes, I wish i could say it's a shame, but my apathy prevents me from doing so.

    She didn't respond after that, but I know she read it.


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    Default Re: Sexual tension or rejection/disinterest

    While the majority satisfice for mediocrity on the basis of luck, the minority value success purely on difficulty and persistence".
    NICE!
    U were sooooooo mean plus u sounded doochy with all those words. This will only attract her if she has low self esteem. sorry but i think it was rejection here.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Sexual tension or rejection/disinterest

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    NICE!
    U were sooooooo mean plus u sounded doochy with all those words. This will only attract her if she has low self esteem. sorry but i think it was rejection here.
    Bringing this post up again, because I want some closure.

    Was this really a rejection?
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    Default Re: Sexual tension or rejection/disinterest

    Straight up? Yeah I think so.

    She basically stated that she views you as, someone who wants do do as little as possible, but get the rewards of someone who does everything.

    She also confirmed the idea would be stagnant & boring by expressing them as being "unbearable".

    Then; when you brought up the apathetic vibe, her thought was: "OK, he doesn't care how boring & stagnant & unbearable & miserable this would be... but I do. And I can't go there. No way!"

    I wouldn't spin my wheels over this one right now. Put it on the back burner, or let it go.

    There's nothing worse than pursuing something/someone, only to discover it's sold out / too expensive/ you forgot your wallet/ you're not tall enough for this ride / you need at least 2 passengers to drive in this lane.... etc.



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    Default Re: Sexual tension or rejection/disinterest

    Quote Originally Posted by DandyLion View Post
    Bringing this post up again, because I want some closure.

    Was this really a rejection?
    Are u seriously doubting me !? :P
    Anyway it's nice to see that u're still here.
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    Default Re: Sexual tension or rejection/disinterest

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    Are u seriously doubting me !? :P
    Anyway it's nice to see that u're still here.
    No I am just curious why it didn't go well with her...thought maybe she was just playing hard to get.
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