I am wondering if it is possible to get out of the friendzone with a girl I know from when i studied abroad in Spain 3 years ago. Ever since then, we have been writing eachother letters, but never have talked about anything sexual. I've tried to pick up on her a few times but my attempts were usually pretty bad and looking back now, knowing what I do, I understand why i easily and foolishly messed up.
I knew she liked me when I first arrived in Spain, but I had a gf, and naturally, she lost interest.
So my question is: is there anyway I can move out of the friendzones, perhaps by what i write in the letters, or how i talk to her on facebook.
Actually, we've been talking on facebook, and here are some messages i thought were somewhat getting me there, but tell me what you think:
Her: Haha you're crazy
Me: And you're like my little sister, annoying and adorable haha :P
Her: Haha adorable?
Me: Yes, that's why i hate you
Her: So you hate me... :'(