I'm big (250lbs) and tall (6'2") and I find the energetic bouncy pick up just makes me feel a little goofy compared to my size. I am really interested in any pick-up involving a suave demeanor or even acting classy. Something chill and relaxed but aggressive enough to keep women mesmerized. Do you guys have any suggestions on material I should look into? (If that is even possible...) Thanks in advance!