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    Default Need your guys advise here pronto

    OK.

    lemme tell you how it all started.

    I just got hired at a sports bar and as you guys know there are hot girls there. I met some new staff but not much interaction. There was this hot girl who worked there and she saw me while coming to the bar as a customer and wanted to know whose the new guy. She introduced herself and gave a very warm smile.

    ok so every time I'm at work she gives me a look but i'm not sure what it means. We worked together one time and she always tried to start conversation. Sometimes about stupid stuff like "my hands look soft". Just wanted to know that if I'm over reacting and take it for nothing or just chill out.

    what u guys think quick ideas here,

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    Default Re: Need your guys advise here pronto

    If you ever think there's attraction, even just think (which you do, cause you asked us) then you should proceed. She was into you, I'd bet the soft hands thing was to get you to feel them, and warm smiles are always a plus. It sounds like more than just politeness, so I'd so start teasing and building attraction ASAP.

    Good luck man.
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    Default Re: Need your guys advise here pronto

    Quote Originally Posted by mangofreak7 View Post
    OK.

    lemme tell you how it all started.

    I just got hired at a sports bar and as you guys know there are hot girls there. I met some new staff but not much interaction. There was this hot girl who worked there and she saw me while coming to the bar as a customer and wanted to know whose the new guy. She introduced herself and gave a very warm smile.

    ok so every time I'm at work she gives me a look but i'm not sure what it means. We worked together one time and she always tried to start conversation. Sometimes about stupid stuff like "my hands look soft". Just wanted to know that if I'm over reacting and take it for nothing or just chill out.

    what u guys think quick ideas here,
    From my own personal experience with girls like that... (The ones who say things like "my hair is so sleek now because of blah blah blah product"... or "my hands are so soft from this special lotion"... or, "my arms are getting really toned because my trainer has me on this workout" etc....)

    I can tell you this: When a girl says stuff like that, It's GAME ON!!
    That is such a direct ioi, because she's hinting she wants you to check it out for yourself. It's an open invitation to touch her.

    The girl is hitting on you!

    She's trying to make you notice & pay attention.
    It's like 10 degrees above the body language hints when they twirl their hair, or put on lip gloss, or whatever.

    If she's initiating conversation about "stupid stuff" like that, it's her opener on you.

    So.... get your butt in there & get that girl!!!


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    Default Re: Need your guys advise here pronto

    Respect!
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    many thanks,its good to hear someones opinion they see what u usually don't

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    Default Re: Need your guys advise here pronto

    Dude, she's giving you hint so go for it! The smile she gave you and the way she always start a conversation are obvious signs that she likes you.. So go and make a move unless you're not interested in her. Goodluck!

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    Default Re: Need your guys advise here pronto

    Quote Originally Posted by mangofreak7 View Post
    Respect!
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    many thanks,its good to hear someones opinion they see what u usually don't
    You're very welcome, my friend.

    I agree that it's sometimes hard to see the obvious things when you're too close to them. So when somebody else gives you a little insight as an outside 3rd party, it can help you catch the things you completely missed.

    So, next time she says anything along those lines, you need to respond with "Oh really? Hmm, let me see..." & reach out to personally inspect it yourself.

    You COULD even follow up with something like, "Wow, That IS soft. That ranks right up there with the top of my puppy's head..."
    Which is a semi ridiculous statement, AND a semi playful neg.

    But it's also complimentary... AND everybody knows the soft spot on a puppy's head... Oh yeah, don't forget that girls are suckers for puppies, so it'll have multiple effects.


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