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    Default Teetering on one-itis

    So there is this other girl where I work at kinda cute. Ive been talking to her for a while now. Recently I have freezed her out because of the extreme shyness I am trying to get over. I have been told many times though that she looks like she's interested in me.
    Anyway today I see her again and she meekly asked me why guys are so dumb.
    "Why do you say that?" I ask. She then tells me about two guys, one that she has friendzoned and another that she says is playing games with her (her words not mine, I'm also going to assume that is me not out of arrogance but to facilitate the story)

    She tells me the sad story of a guy who confesses an undying love for her and I start calling him an idiot. She asks for my advice on dealing with him, so I tell her to cut him off and stop leading him on. She swears she's not leading him on so I "believe" her. She then says something about going over to his house just to "sleep" together no sex. The following was our conversation verbatim.

    Me:"So you sleep with him and you swear you are not leading him on."

    Her:"No I didn't sleep with him I swear! Cross my heart!"

    Me:"Bullcrap! You are leading this man on and your complaint is that he thinks you guys have something more going on between you. You should be ashamed of yourself."

    Her:"No I'm not!" She pleads while grinning with a 'damn you caught me' smile

    Me:smiling and walking away (had to start my next shift) "You should be ashamed of yourself, ASHAMED!"

    I was wondering if I should text her asking about the other guy? (who I am assuming is me)
    Last edited by PopPop; 07-24-2012 at 05:37 AM. Reason: grammar

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    Default Re: Teetering on one-itis

    Since you're already talking about things that are semi-sexual, I would ramp it up & escalate the Tension & flirt with her.

    You two were already "teasing" each other a bit, with the whole "ashamed" thing & smiling right?

    So your angle should be, "I've been thinking about it & you need some discipline. SOMEBODY needs to spank you..." (something to that effect. )

    Or, "look here little missy, your misbehavior is gonna get you put in the time out chair. And if that doesn't work, I'll put you over my knee!! "

    It sounds like she's into the dominant frame you were establishing, even if it was playful... so you could have yourself a little wildcat swatting at the string...

    Just sayin...


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    Default Re: Teetering on one-itis

    Have a strong intent and then listen to what your mind (and body) tell you. If you think digging deeper into who the other guy she was talking about will get you closer to your intent with her then I say go for it.

    If your intent is to sleep with her then I would think of a way to bring up the other guy in a way that would build her attraction for you. Like telling her that you think you know who she is talking about, but not confessing.

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    Default Re: Teetering on one-itis

    bro she is creating a triangle and is using the other guy to get you jelous and interested, she wants you just ask her out for a D1, in australia girls do this all the time, she is trying to seduce you. its high school edicate.

    don't react over the other guy thats cleary what she is trying to get you to do, give her what she wants and she will own you.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Teetering on one-itis

    Thank all of you for the awesome advice, I do think I am going to go with the "you need to be punished" frame while backing off the "push/pull bastard" subject she mentioned before. I might see her again today so I will post any further results.

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    Default Re: Teetering on one-itis

    Update:

    So previous to all of the advice I went ahead and texted her asking about the guy driving her nuts. Once I received the advice I instantly said, "Nevermind the way he messes with your head sounds like a divine punishment you deserve."
    "Dick, lol" she responded.

    Me:"Hey if it were up to me, I'd bend you over me knee and spanked you."

    Her: what?

    At this point I started to freak out. I escalated too quick and it was out of character I got too hung up with the idea of spanking to lead into a sexual topic that I forced it. I was panickig! In my desperation I google spanking (boy was that a treat.) Wading through all the porn I found a video, relax it wasn't a dirty video, of a store robber getting hit by pepper spray and then spanked by the store's owner. Gears started turning and bam:

    Me: "Haha, me and my friends just saw a video of some store robber getting etc. etc."

    Lemme tell you those next few minutes were intense.

    Her: "Lol, you have some weird kinks."

    Skin o' my teeth guys.

    Me: "Ohhh, yeah I can picture it now, I walk in with my robbers toolkit and a sexy clerk catches me, walking up to me whispering, 'Mr. you need to be punished' and douses me with pepper spray."

    No response yet, I don't know if that wad dlv. It starting to feel like Im screwing the pooch here guys. Heh!
    You look at a wall and start by saying, "Well fuck, that wall is huge. How the hell am I supposed to get over that. It must be at least 20ft tall...." When you could have used that time you spent complaining figuring out a way around that wall.

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    Default Re: Teetering on one-itis

    you tryed to recover and it went backwards, i recommend a change in subjest, say you have to go help your sister and you will tak tomorrow, that will re-establish dhv.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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