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    Thumbs up You'll never close if your stuck on the open...

    What you say is not important. What is important is that you know what they are going to say after you said it. Testing openers can be entertaining when your out with your buddies and you want to have some fun throwing around cheesy pick-up lines for some laughs. And most likely laughs are all your going to be leaving with that night.

    Whatever your style is I found that consistency is an invaluable tool. Invoking optimal reactions. Most conversation is always the same. Every action dictates a response that leads to an action. This continues in a loop between parties until someone terminates the cycle by leaving. A response is dictated by a culmination of life experiences, specific to each individual, directly caused by the action. With every person in the world being unique, being that no two people can, have, nor ever will share the same exact life experiences, the possibilities are endless. HOWEVER, after repetition you will find you almost always get one of two basic responses, positive or negative. The actually verbiage will vary from woman to woman.

    The easiest way to break it down is the old game of "hot or cold." a positive reaction means you are getting "hotter" or closer to the ultimate objective of getting laid and a negative reaction means you are getting colder. The best way to anticipate how a woman will react to find out how woman actually react to an opener. Its simple really. Use it over and over and over again. I recommend you find one initiation style you like and stick with it. Repeating similar actions will yield similar results. You will find your immediate comment will lead to one or two of the same responses. from here it is important to follow the consistency pattern. Aftwer a while you should know what there going to say and how they are going to say it. You need to know exactly what to say from theses response. And it continues until you achieved your objective. It will not be long after continuing the pattern that you will notice more and more variances in the reactions that are suddel hints to how you are doing. From the way they may tilt their head, the words they chose to lose, or even posture or facial movements will have patterns. This loop will continue till penetration or bust.

    What separates an elite PUA from an amateur is how my actions he has to take until he provokes the response for sex. Think of it as a game of chess. Go to the table knowing your goal and how to achieve it. Remember what one of our founding PUA Benjamin Frankilin said "Failure to plan is a plan for failure."

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    Default Re: You'll never close if your stuck on the open...

    I would love to hear some opinions on my tactics. This is my first crack at blogging so please be gentle. Lets just say I am better at getting laid then writing. Let me know what you think and if you have any questions please ask.

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    Default Re: You'll never close if your stuck on the open...

    There is a difference between being a good PUA and being a good teacher. Some guys are good at picking up girls. Some guys are good at teaching other guys how to pick up girls. Some are good at both.

    You write well. Spittin' theory like a pro. Good job.
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    Default Re: You'll never close if your stuck on the open...

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    There is a difference between being a good PUA and being a good teacher. Some guys are good at picking up girls. Some guys are good at teaching other guys how to pick up girls. Some are good at both.

    You write well. Spittin' theory like a pro. Good job.
    Your kind words are appreciated. I would hope that I sound like a pro because I am one...

    Many would say you cannot be considered a Master PUA until you have taught. Atl east Mystery would agree with me. I suppose its just the next step of a PUA's evolutionary process. What I can tell you Is I have professionally trained others various different life skills for my career. It is profound what one can learn by being a teacher. I recommend every aspiring PUA takes a man under his wing. Teach him everything you know. The experience will prove to be invaluable to both of your games.
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    Default Re: You'll never close if your stuck on the open...

    the theory sounds good but what do i talk to girls about, i need some interesting topics to talk about, that won't sound too sleazy, yet will draw their interest, anything will help thanks

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    Default Re: You'll never close if your stuck on the open...

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    the theory sounds good but what do i talk to girls about, i need some interesting topics to talk about, that won't sound too sleazy, yet will draw their interest, anything will help thanks
    Its not as much what you say, than how you say it. There is a long list of proven openers like: Did you see the fight outside? or Let me get your opinion on something, do you think making out is cheating?

    All fine and good. It accomplishes the mission of making contact. Find something that is not defensive and provokes interest easily. Starting a conversation is easy. But initiating a successful pickup truly is an art.

    After you successfully open the set make sure you start stacking immediately. Keep the momentum flowing in the right direction. Be sure to have dhv's ready and have a plan of attack.

    Its hard to accomplish a goal you have not visualized through accomplishment. So formulate a plan and execute it.

    I personally use the same 3 openers over and over and over again. I have had the same conversation a thousand times. And I love it. I know the reactions I am going to provoke. I also know how to stack from their reactions. This consistency gave me the opportunity to fine tune my pickup from opener to sex. So like I said before, Find an opener that fits your style, and stick with it.

    If you need a push in the right direction start with something fun... (smile and be playful)

    Let me get you opinion on something... would you ever date a guy named Gilbert?

    They will answer...

    Then stack! My sister is dating a guy named Gilbert and wants to get his name tattooed on her. Do you think tattoos on girls are hot??

    Etc, Etc, Etc.... Good luck buddy.
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    Default Re: You'll never close if your stuck on the open...

    thanks, could you tell me what your three openers are? just curious,how exactly do you stack a conversation? how could i make them work for me? i know i have alot of questions but please bear with me, i'm kinda new to the hole pua thing and i'm a total AFC thanks


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