One of the things that guys ask me almost universally when
I start coaching them is "how do I get this girl? or "how do I get my ex back?" My answer is always the same, "FORGET about that girl." Now, I know there is a whole segment of PUA geared toward getting back the ex. Personally, I think you are better of not giving a s**t.
I digress, back to my original point. I see guys focused so much on one girl, and it seems unhealthy for a PUA mindstate. What if that one girl shoots you down. What if she's happy in a relationship? What if she's secretly a man? The point being is being caught up on one woman while sarging is just silly. Sure you may find that one girl as you sarge, but sarging for the sake of one girl is usually an exercise in futility.
As a PUA, you should adopt the mentality of a lion. The lion knows it's going hunting. As it approaches the herd, it's goal is to bring in some food. In this case let's say our herd is HB7's or better. Dive in and go hunt. If the lions were to pick out the target furthest away because it looked the juiciest, they would probably starve. This applies to being a PUA as well. Sarge beautiful women, create opportunities, and you will prosper.