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    Westlife23 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation The dreaded "Not ready for a relationship Bomb"

    So i've recently been seeing this girl i met at the local Gym - Had a lot of attraction, A lot of Push and Pull to peak attraction - Asked her out on our first date, Went perfect - closed with a kiss.
    Second date was a tad more informal and unplanned still held good convo.
    And on our 3rd Date i was able to Bed this lovely lady.
    We've been in constant contact every weekend -Doing couple things and also banging - this was all going fine until she flaked on me one of these weekends to hang out with the girls, I decided to hang low - chill with the boys and not contact her until she made the effort once again.

    Received a Txt 2 days later for apologizing for her flaking - but also dropping the - I've gotten out of a serious relationship and currently am not ready for anything serious".

    To which i replied very casusally- and didnt make a big deal about it.

    My dilema is - How do i play it from here - to Just get a fark buddy, Girlfriend, What ever i can really?

    How would you play this scenario?

    Thanks in advance!

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    Default Re: The dreaded "Not ready for a relationship Bomb"

    say to her: look I was dwelling on what you said before about not being ready for an exclusive commitment, and with that thought i have relised how much fun we are having and how much i enjoy you as a person, so i came to the conclusion, why would i want to ruin that, we have so lets just take it slow and hang out and if it esculates or doesn't we can still appreciate each other."

    Hope I Helped, just an idea. SHould show (respect, maturity, and minimul maintanance) then you can start gaming on her properelly

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: The dreaded "Not ready for a relationship Bomb"

    The only way this is a "bomb" is if you were looking for a relationship in the first place. If you're like most PUAs here then chances are you aren't (if that is your end game then I can hook you up with someone better at long term stuff than me.) So what's the bit deal? Sounds like both of you see looking for just casual fun: why screw that up? She didn't LJBF you or anything like that, just told you she didn't want a commitment. Just agree and don't make a big deal of it, as if she didn't even have to say it cause you were already there. You could even tease her about it.

    "woah woah woah, who said anything about relationships...list en, I know you're into me but the reverse psychology isn't going to cut it. I'm not looking for anything serious right now. But if thats what you're into i can set you up with my cousin. He's a great guy, the other Warcraft players really look up to him ;-)"

    Don't make a big deal out of something that's not. PUAs are alphas, and alphas are non-reactive. So don't react.
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