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Thread: Need opinion on my planned approach

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    Default Need opinion on my planned approach

    Hey guys,

    I've got my eyes set on this girl(HB8) that works in the same office as I do. Basically, we know each other a little bit and already did small talk here and there. Latest was chatting earlier and I've teased her on how she name-calls a coworker.

    Our company will be having an anniversary party 2 weeks from now and I've devised an approach which I need your opinion on. The party will have HB10s who work as live dealers from our other office and so many guys will have their attention on them. Me on the other hand, will walk up to my target and say:

    "Could you help me with something?(proceed if she says yes) I want to imagine that I'm in a bar/club right now and I walked up to the girl that I find most interesting and started talking to her. Question is, if I asked for the girl's number, would she give it to me?"

    I will deliver this will a killer eye contact, and a kinda serious tone. If she answers yes, I'd thank her for her time and walk away. The next day, I'll say, "where is it?" She'd be puzzled and ask me to specify and I'll refer to her as the girl I was talking to that night and ask for her number.

    Your thoughts?
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    Default Re: Need opinion on my planned approach

    Its good to preplan to a certain degree. The more planned it is the more you will expect a specific result. There simply is too many variables to consider. Like the fact that she may answer your question more openly such as "Depends of she's single or if she likes you" This is still a good response but may throw you off if you're expecting only a yes or no. She may even call you on it such as "Is this how you usually ask for a girls number by addressing it like its another woman?" So you have to be ready for this response. There's nothing wrong with a simple approach. You don't always have to come up with something clever. If you decide to use this opener then be ready for a range of responses. Usually there's a positive, negative, and neutral response you have to prepare for. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Need opinion on my planned approach

    Hey man thanks for the quick response.

    That's something I overlooked. I guess I was so much into thinking of how I can pull this off.
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    Default Re: Need opinion on my planned approach

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Its good to preplan to a certain degree. The more planned it is the more you will expect a specific result. There simply is too many variables to consider. Like the fact that she may answer your question more openly such as "Depends of she's single or if she likes you" This is still a good response but may throw you off if you're expecting only a yes or no. She may even call you on it such as "Is this how you usually ask for a girls number by addressing it like its another woman?" So you have to be ready for this response. There's nothing wrong with a simple approach. You don't always have to come up with something clever. If you decide to use this opener then be ready for a range of responses. Usually there's a positive, negative, and neutral response you have to prepare for. Hope this helps and good luck.
    actually, I have another question with this. We already know each other. How does that play out? Also I think there might be another guy who's interested on her.
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    Default Re: Need opinion on my planned approach

    You don't have worry about the other guy. Whatever you put your focus on you give it power. So I want you to focus on being The Prize that she is trying to win over.

    Try to filter your behavior like she is trying to win you over and interpret everything she says or does as her trying to hit on you. You never want to blatantly verbalize this mind you. Simply treat it like a filter for your behavior to show through.

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    Default Re: Need opinion on my planned approach

    That's so right man. Thanks. According to David DeAngelo:

    "It’s good to address this issue and point
    out when talking to women (even if you hint at it and talk
    about past experiences to make the point) that you are
    the selector and not the selectee."
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    Default Re: Need opinion on my planned approach

    Never 'plan' anything other than u're opener. Just go up to her start talking to her, get her invested in the conversation and then start making her jump through hoops.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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