One of the more common questions posted here is how do I kiss a girl, or how do I know if she wants to kiss me? Here’s the best advice I can give
Note: I’ve posted this in one form or another several times. Most notably I have a discussion and demonstration here: http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-field-report/8286-my-first-very-long-field-report-tropics.html.
Basically there’s 2 techniques I like –
1 – you just do it (kinda)
As you’re building up to the kiss, you want to build tension. If you haven’t touched the girl up to this point, you’re going to have a pretty high failure rate. You want to have lots of Kino going, touch your target, tease her, push her away here and there. As you touch you escalate the kino, first prod her shoulder with a joke, later touch her shoulder or neck as it builds, then get lots of Push Pull. This is not a report about building kino, that’s another topic entirely, just understand that’s a part of it. The idea is that as you’ve escalated, you get closer and closer, make a girl think you’re going to kiss her, stand close to her and pull her body close, then push away. If you push her away, she can’t reject your kiss. It’s going to confuse her, make her wonder why you didn’t kiss her, even if she would have rejected it she’ll still wonder why. That gets her thinking. When you do finally kiss her later, it’ll be powerful.
There’s one other test you can and should always do because its so simple: Touch her hair. Use an excuse (is that your natural color? Or even, oh I love your hair- it doesn’t really matter find something to say). Gauge her receptiveness: the idea? – your hand is right up on her face, if she was averse to a kiss she will turn away. If she is receptive, you can kiss her. As I said before out of maybe 50 times I’ve used this it failed only once, but we still got together later she was just playing it slower.
2 – Mystery’s kiss close
For the rest of you that want to use material this is a simple but safe kiss close test.
You just ask the girl – “Do you want to kiss me?” (Please note, you should have some good rapport going at this point, if you just introduced yourself then ask this question…. Well you may have to go back to the basics). A girl can say Yes, Maybe, or No. Or she’ll hum and haw
If she says Yes – Kiss her
If she says Maybe – that means yes so kiss her, or say “well lets find out” and kiss her
If she says No – you say “Well I didn’t say you could”, or some other way to stay light hearted.
Credit to Mystery for the second method. Credit to Lyle Lowndes for the trick about touching the hair. And credit to overall game for the rest.