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Thread: Foreign girls - how to close them

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    Default Foreign girls - how to close them

    Here's my issue. I live next to an English speaking foreign exchange school and all day long i have girls around or in my apartment. They are obviously here to party and have a good time, i want to give em that but I'm a bit hesitant on closing foreign girls (not that i close that much anyway, yet). Just looking for some advice or feedback. . .thanks

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    Default Re: Foreign girls

    not enough details m8, why hesitant on foreign girls? you don't know the language that well or aa or anything else?
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    Default Re: Foreign girls

    my apologies on lack of detail. The language barrier is a bit of an issue, havent been out of the country a lot especially not for women and i cant seem to find anything in common with most of them. Keeping the conversations rolling is trouble enough for me. As you can tell im very young in this community. Maybe i should start by asking for help on some openers?....any help is more than welcome. thanks

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    hey man, as for the language i cant really help you, except try to get KINO faster maybe?

    as for the Openers, you can use canned openers if you want to, but a simple 'hi' or a situational opener will do wonders if you have good bodylanguage and have already
    built social proof

    now, what to talk about after approach.. its pretty simple actually.. ANYTHING you want and comes to your mind, as long as you keep her interested..
    now to keep her interested and create attraction, you have to dhv yourself by
    having a sense of humor
    being the AMOG
    using push-pull technique

    after she looks interested, you need to build rapport with her, you can play games like 'the cube', 'esp routine', 'the question game', and then try to escalate little by little into KINO

    thats basically it
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    Default Re: Foreign girls

    Bobcat really hit the nail on the head to be honest! I'm currently seeing a foreign girl, she's Italian but speaks pretty good English. I see it as an advantage as I can easily neg her by pointing out her funny accent and things like that. It's all about being the AMOG as well I suppose as I find thy no matter where the girl is from, she's always gonna want a guy who comes across as stron and independent

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    Default Re: Foreign girls - how to close them

    Hey yall,

    I've had some run-ins with varying degrees of Eglish speakers, here's a few things that might help:

    First off, she's in your country to experience new things - so be that guy who knows all these little local historical details, a few good local dives that associate you with value, and generally how to have fun while she is "on vacation"... or atleast under the same liberated social state of vacation.

    Then the two biggest factors I've seen are how much English she speaks and where she's from.

    Speaken English

    If she speaks decent English it'll be easier to run game on her (and also to get accurate feedback to know if she's comfortable). Also, especially if you wanna take it up a notch when she speaks little English, I'd suggest learning a handful of phrases in her language. Not like "may I have a bagle" or "hello, when is the train to Berlin" but the phrases that are gonna be turning points in your game plan:

    "Are you hungry" - take her for food
    "Do you drink?" - be drinkin buddies
    "I know a good place..." - and a tiny description of some local phenomenon to which you will take her
    "I should go..." or another FTC
    "Wanna see a magic trick?" - kinda hokey, but magic tricks work in any language
    "Are you tired?" - this will let you know if she wants to keep partying toward the end of the night
    "Are you comfortable?" - this one can be one of those panty-dr@ping moments. You're on the couch, chillen, slightly tipsy. You Kino move (hand on knee or hand) she accepts. Turn her chin toward you, smile micheviously and say, in her language "are you comfortable?" Boom. I hope you're at her place or yours because it is now on... save for LMR - (token resist while you escalate)

    I was gaming this chick from Beijing once, and she was always like really careful speaking Chinese in front of me beause she wasn't sure how much I knew of the language... only like 50 words for tru tho

    Her Culture
    / Where she's from (Disclaimer: this part is going to reference general tendencies of the perceptions of other nations, and if may be considered offensive and should not be viewed by anyone)

    If she's from one of those countries that tends to think all English speakers are wealthy - (Africa, South/Central America, East Europe, SE Asia) - then play to that. Don't try to make it rain or any bu11$#1t like that, just reference your lake house or a trip to NY or something - that'll hugely raise your value. Also show interest in her culture to build comfort while you show her around the local attractions.

    If she's from one of those countries that tends to think English speakers (USA mostly) are barbaric and stupid - (Europe, Canada, Middle-East) - then go for more cocky-funny Cowboy AMOG type. Neg her playfully about her cultures' "wierdness" without offending her national pride, but also dhv yourself as intelligent or else she'll write you off as a stupid foreginer (to her).
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    Default Re: Foreign girls - how to close them

    I feel like I should add to always be respectful - better to err on the side of too respectful with foreign girls. Since they're in a different country they have waaay higher defences - because the HAVE TO. Remember that they are alone in a place where they don't speak the language - comfort building is huge, as is social proof.

    I recommend using your Fluff to find out how conservative they are (most Asians a super conservative in public) ask about their bf back home (assume he exists - disqualifies them and builds comfort)

    If she's conservative put her in your friendzone and use the social proof on her friends - don't traumatize foreigners by being too forward.

    If she's pretty liberal and DTF then green light bro. My personal fav is "it's wierd how body language is consistent no matter what language... like I noticed a second ago you thought about kissing me - even though your English isn't so good *wink and smile playfully*"

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