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Thread: Wow, my club game BLOWS...any advice?

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    Default Wow, my club game BLOWS...any advice?

    So I'll admit it...I've had my good days and bad days in the club scene but lately (and for the majority) my club game pretty much sucks.

    I typically get too drunk, which is my own fault, and end up going up to every set of girls and put my arm around one of them and tell them to dance with me. Sure, maybe 1 out of every 10 girls will go for it but most just get creeped out. And, to be honest, I'm not a creep at all when I hit the bars and most women (not to be egocentric) find me very attractive and often times feel very comfortable opening up to me.

    I honestly can't remember the last time I've f-closed with a girl at a club but I can do it pretty consistantly at a bar.

    Any advice for a good, fast approach to get the club girls WANTING to hang out with me?

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: Wow, my club game BLOWS...any advice?

    I'd say, don't be "outcome dependent" to start with.
    If you're giving too many cues right away that you're trying to get in their pants, they'll pick up on that & you'll definitely get blown out.

    Also- remember that the ultimate attraction switch is "FUN". If you're a fun guy, & you cause the girl(s) to have fun, that's going to make her become attracted to you faster than anything else.

    Then, things will progress further much more easily.


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    Default Re: Wow, my club game BLOWS...any advice?

    Thanks,

    Makes more sense, I know it's a stupid thing to go to a group of girls and immediately let them know I'm "hitting on them" yet every time I do the same thing. I'm gonna try going into the night with a "cheat sheet" and have my game better layed out ahead of time.

    One thing I will pride myself of is how I can have fun just about anywhere. The reason girls find me attractive is probably because of that quality I possess. I just need a way to convey that to them in a club setting without coming off as needy. Any suggestions?

    Thanks again!


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