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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    and for those of us not familiar with the october man sequence?

    And are you saying you dont necessarily have to hypnotize her with visualization techniques or a guided meditation or NLP like ross jeffries did in the game? You can just do normal comfort and rapport building? Wouldnt you need to get her to feel definitively sexual or loving feelings?

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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    And are you saying you dont necessarily have to hypnotize her with visualization techniques or a guided meditation or NLP like ross jeffries did in the game? You can just do normal comfort and rapport building?

    Right. That's what I'm saying. They're practically the same thing anyway.

    Wouldnt you need to get her to feel definitively sexual or loving feelings?

    She is going eventually going to have a conditioned reflex of whatever emotion you condition. Happiness and joy are different from sexual arousal. Choose whichever you prefer I suppose.

    And don't knock what you don't know. Jeffries markets it like freaky sh*t because it sells, but study it and you'll realize it's not that far fetched (and the stuff that is doesn't work, in my personal opinion). I've been covertly working some of the discrete practices of TOMS with some girls in class but I'm starting to think half of it is bullsh*t. It works if she is aware and willing and all that fun stuff.

    Two important things to note on this: a trance isn't what you think. Everything that you've been lead to believe on it from pop culture and trash resources is off. Trances can be low key. And second (and most importantly), you can't hypnotize somebody who doesn't want to be hypnotized. Girls don't "fall" into a trance against their will. They do so willingly. Depending on how you know the story, either kids or rats followed the pied piper of hamelin, but either way they did so happily.

    They mean it (and so do I) when they say that some guys just shouldn't know this. You can use it for the wrong reasons and seriously mess with people's lives. But if it's all in good fun and she just wants to play along, you can do some pretty kick ass party tricks
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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    Lol I am a shaman, dont worry I know all about hypnosis. The name sexual sorcerer is not just me being a dungeons and dragons nerd. I actually am a sorcerer. And hypnosis was one of the first things I studied. However I am still very confused about your technique, even more so than before.

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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    I've practiced NLP and PU side-by-side for over ten years. I thought I'd throw in a few clarifying details regarding Anchors.

    1) Anchors should be unique touches in infrequent areas of touch.
    Trying to set an Anchor by touching a girl on the shoulder is setting up for failure. That is a common place for a woman to be touched - not only by guys hitting on her but by people who just need to ask her a question at work (for example). You need to pick a very unique anchor. Some good places are the inside of the elbow, the backside of the knee, touching the hip bone, or the side of the torso above the elbow.

    2) Anchors lose effectiveness as they are used.
    You must maintain anchors by touching the anchor during separate interactions with her when you are evoking the same emotion. This can look strange, so you have to work it into incidental Kino, and she will just look at it as a unique quirk of yours.

    3) Overt use of Anchors renders them ineffective.
    We are all aware when we are touched, and she is aware of your touch - even apparently incidental touch. She *will* notice if she sees you touching the inside elbow of another girl. This awareness "That's how he touches me!" will render it ineffective, and when they compare notes later, things will not go well. Use different Anchors for different girls.

    The best use of anchors IMO is for emotional state changes like relaxation and trust. You are building these with rapport anyway (or should be!) and it is easy to have rapport conversations with your arm around her while gently stroking her hip on key phrases, or while she is telling you about that time she felt so relaxed and free.

    You *can* set Anchors during orgasm as well, as long as you are consistent and apply it while she is either right on the brink or in the throes of it. Just remember that for anchors to be effective, you have to maintain them by triggering them every time.

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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    Does this really work?
    @ OP I am very interested in what you are talking about. can you go more into depth about all the steps, and give examples?

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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    Thank you steelraven and cody! I am definately going to try using anchoring by touching the inside of the elbow! Now cody (or steelraven you can answer this too) I would like to hear more about the different types of emotions you evoke and how you Anchor them. For instance have you had success with both touching and sounds, or does one work better? And do you have certain procedures you use that work well?

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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    I know my fair share of NLP and emotional anchoring but I incorporate them later especially on the 1st date or 2nd date, it's a sure-fire cure for LMR but if there's one thing missing from this article is you need to set the emotional Anchor after explaining the experience you feel when in this state in detail. You need to explain the feeling in such a way she can relate to them. The full steps for emotional anchoring are as such:

    1. Think of the emotional state you want, in this case it's normally the state of an instantaneous connect where you want her to feel like she's known you for a lifelife.

    2. Start this by asking her if she's ever felt this with the phrases such as "Have you ever" or "What is it like when you..." and then tell her the state you want her direct her in "Have you ever met someone that you didn't know for a long time and you felt like you had an instantaneous connection with them, like you've know them your whole life? *point to yourself as this is going on*"

    3. Go into detail about this experience such as "Like maybe as you where there, looking at them and you where listening intently to everything they where saying and it felt like there was a cord for light between and you that person *point between your solar-plexus* and you felt this cord beam". Theres more detail to add in here but you get the picture.

    4. Amplify the details and really get her into this state.

    5.Link it to yourself.

    6. Touch her, inside of the elbow is good.

    7. Tell her to feel these emotions again. At the peak of this state, touch her again. Do this one more time (this should be done 3 times so its there)

    8. Get this anchor going by touching her again. While talking you can keep your hand there or remove it and use this later.

    9. You can keep her in this state by explaining this state through a different context.
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