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    Default How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    So there was this Russian guy who went by the name of Ivan Pavlov. Once while studying the digestion of dogs he made an unexpected discovery. You see, whenever it was meal time for the dogs he would ring a bell. Consequently, the dogs would salivate (Awesome, right? Dude sounds like a genius.) The interesting part was that eventually, even when the dogs were no longer presented with food, they still salivated at the sound of the bell. This goes under a collection of different terms: Conditioned Reflex, Behavioral Modification, Classical Conditioning, Etc. We are simply going to call it anchoring.

    Cool story Bro, now how does it apply to pickup? Well, similar to dogs, people can be classically conditioned to evoke specific responses from a particular stimulus; a modified reflex that affects behavior. You can, in effect, bundle her positively charged emotional state into an Anchor set subconsciously within her mind.

    Let me say that in PU terms. You no longer have to spend as much time building comfort and rapport every time you meet back up. You can literally poke her to make her feel how she felt when you two were last cuddling. Enough hype, here’s how you do it.

    1. Charge her state. The more intense her feelings, the stronger/more effective your anchor will be. You want her feeling as great as possible.

    2. Introduce the stimulus. It doesn’t have to be Kino, but this is why kino works. Also, the more abstract your stimulus is, the better the anchor. Touch her hip. Play with her hair. Poke her. Practically anything will do as long as you…

    3. Repeat the (SAME) Stimulus. This is the last nail in the coffin. Unless you repeat the stimulus it’s unreasonable to expect your desired response. It can’t just be kino. It has to be identical kino.

    4. Enjoy. And exercise proper care. Don’t be a douche bag about it. Some really f*cked up PUA’s have gone Darth Vader with this sh*t. There’s nothing wrong with it because people do it unknowingly all the time (friends hug after long periods of not seeing each other.) Love and respect women. Do it right.
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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    Sounds like someone has been reading about the October Man Great post Cody! Consider this a bump.

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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    Would you believe me if I said I learned this from my ex?

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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    Anchoring is definitely powerful! And because it's a natural, subconscious reaction, it's almost impossible to prevent it from happening.

    Even something as simple as texting can develop a strong conditioned response & create an emotional Anchor to your phone.

    When you have attraction & rapport with someone & you been enjoy messaging back & forth with them, it creates a natural "high" & you feel all giddy & happy to get their next text.

    Let's say you've been at work, or school, or wherever for a couple hours. Your phone suddenly alerts you of a new incoming text... What happens?
    You pipe up with excitement & a rush of "emotional gooey goodness" surges throughout your brain & body, hoping it's from "that person".

    Even if it turns out to be from a friend or family member instead, (and you feel a little disappointment) the very next time you get a text, that same process takes place & that emotional reaction happens again.

    So yeah, emotional anchoring is the real deal, Lucille!!


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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    Pavlov's Classical Conditioning was the first thing I thought of while reading about 'anchoring' while reading The Game.

    It's an awesome tool, and tmalonetn's text example, I think, is probably the most effective anchoring tool in a PUA's arsenal. The stimulus and response; everything is there and it is the perfect example of a strong 'Anchor.'

    Great post Cody. Looking forward to seeing a few in-field tests with anchoring.
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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    So master cody can you perhaps tell us some of the things you use to charge her state and Anchor it?

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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    Love it! I'm gonna try this with a code word+a look!

    ...like... ...."Bonerriffic! *"

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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    Hmmm yes a code word and a look thats a good idea thanks autismus

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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    yeah, can you be please a little bit more specific about "Charging her state"?

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    Default Re: How to Set an Emotional Anchor

    For those of you familiar with The October Man Sequence, it's the same idea as getting her most intense feelings to surface. To charge her emotional state, you build comfort and rapport. As said, stronger emotions = fuller results. Make her feel good. feed her ego, get sexual, etc.
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