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    Default My Thoughts on the Friend Zone

    Found this great article on how to avoid the friend zone. Here is a snippet.

    Tell me what you think guys!

    If you want to avoid the friend zone you need to work on physical touch. The #1 biggest difference between a friend and potential boyfriend or hookup, is touching. It is scientifically proven that touching increases attraction (see here). When you touch a woman in a sensual way, it makes it obvious to her that you are flirting and that you like her more than a friend. This automatically keeps you out of the friend zone. Remember, this is advice to avoid the friend zone, so if you’re already in it, then there are a whole other set of guidelines for you. Look for these in a few weeks. For now, here’s a list of the 3 key places to touch a woman when you two are flirting:

    • Hug them when they do something or say something you think is awesome
    • Touch her lower back when you’re walking together or leading her somewhere
    • Make an excuse to touch her hands/elbows/arms and tell her they’re cute

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    Default Re: My Thoughts on the Friend Zone

    Thanks for sharing this, Trip. What is the title and source of the article so that we can Google it? (I know that you can't share links until you are a more senior poster.)

    Google: TED Paul Zak: Trust, morality -- and oxytocin
    Google: No love for outsiders – oxytocin boosts

    Touching causes the body to produce oxytocin. This is hormone (neurotransmitter) associated with trust and bonding. I find the neuro-psychology that comes up in the PUA Community more fascinating than the best routines and gambits.

    Great thing about these science articles is that they also work as "Chick Crack." A friend of mine was running the pandora's box personality test on a gal during his D2. It worked beautifully. Women are even more fascinated by these insights than we are.

    Avoiding the friend zone? You want to tease her, be somewhat elusive and stay light/playful. I'm a very deep/analytic thinker, so D2 game is giving me trouble like nobody's business.

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    Default Re: My Thoughts on the Friend Zone

    TED Talk about Oxytocin and Bonding
    Discovery Channel Blog Post about Oxytocin:

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    Default Re: My Thoughts on the Friend Zone

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...advantage.html

    or once your in it use the above.

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    Default Re: My Thoughts on the Friend Zone

    Let's keep in mind that we're also putting gals into our friend-zones. Gal that I've only seen twice was suddenly "busy, busy." Until Sunday night, I was losing patience and ready to text her, "LJBF." Admittedly I wasn't getting that great of IOIs until Sunday, so it might've been mutual at that point.

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    I'm always challenging myself to grow.

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    Default Re: My Thoughts on the Friend Zone

    I say, why avoid when you can use it a conquer it, friend zone is a area many men fall into, it happens quickly and regularly. If you can avoid it go for it, using other sources of information other than the ones on this site, i dont recommend that due to the advice used for marketing where is here is for help of men needing support, also how old is that document, there are costant updates on this site.

    Plus one document written by a single man vs this site of 100000 members, do the math.

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    If you want to avoid the friend zone you need to work on physical touch. The #1 biggest difference between a friend and potential boyfriend or hookup, is touching.

    the real #1 difference between friend and hook up is attraction, Kino is only 1 of many tools you need to preform to achieve that, you have to hit her emotions, her needs etc. that articul is artifical and unprecise

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    Default Re: My Thoughts on the Friend Zone

    This is great! I'm pretty sure guys who are friend-zoned would find this very helpful! Thank you so much for sharing this. Now I know how to avoid myself on being friend-zoned by my friend who I really like. Thanks!

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    Default Re: My Thoughts on the Friend Zone

    Quote Originally Posted by Trip View Post
    Found this great article on how to avoid the friend zone. Here is a snippet.
    You just stumbled across this random website called Tripp Advice? Really, Trip? Let's try to be a little more transparent about where we are coming from.

    Quote Originally Posted by Trip
    I don't recommend (using other sources) due to the advice (being) used for marketing (purposes) where(as) here is for help(ing) men needing support... Plus one document written by a single man vs this site of 100(,)000 members, do the math.
    I agree that there is a lot of stuff out there that is just written for self-promoting and marketing. However, Vin DiCarlo and David DeAngelo have written plenty of self-promo and plenty of great advice. I'm willing to give Trip/Tripp a chance to have his voice heard on here.

    Quote Originally Posted by Trip
    Kino is only 1 of many tools you need to preform to achieve that
    I tease and touch friends who are never going to turn into hook-ups. Agreed that there are many tools to build attraction. However, I think that the article does offer some useful insights.

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    Default Re: My Thoughts on the Friend Zone

    Hey, was reading through the posts and just thought I'd say that I have experienced this avoiding of the friend zone and don't often fall into it. What I didn't realise was that me being such a touchy feely person was the reason for it. I hug, touch, wrestle with and generally have fun with all my female friends and have successfully hit on a few of them that I have known for years. Always wondered why I never found the friend zone much of a problem and now I know why cheers guys

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