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    hey all, usually when i go out to clubs/bars, i get pumped up a lot to go out and approach, and get the girls but tonight i dont feel motivated at all :/.. actually just going out because its 2 birthdays of my m8s.. but does any1 have some motivation he'd like to share with me ?
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    Default Re: not motivated to approach tonight :/

    Sure!

    When you're out tonight you KNOW there's going to be a girl there that makes you drool. (That's just how it always happens!! HAHA!)

    So, instead of sitting there letting the opportunity pass by, get up & go talk to her about why you're out.

    You're celebrating with friends, so she & her friends should come join you, so they don't have to worry about getting mobbed & hit on by all the "lame guys".

    She'll appreciate that!
    I mean, after all, you'll be doing her a good service. Right?


    (That's the way you need to think about it in your head. AND it's absolutely true!! So you should believe it 100%. Because if you do, it'll show & your confidence will be noticeable to her.)

    It's all in your favor this time! And it may be the easiest night ever.



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    Default Re: not motivated to approach tonight :/

    Go out...you never know what you will find. I have met cute girls...just by forcing myself to go out. I go anywhere with wigmen or not! I am my best wigman...since I can't take off when I want.

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    Default Re: not motivated to approach tonight :/

    thanks guys i feel a bit better now .. hopefully will be a good night! cya better get going
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    Default Re: not motivated to approach tonight :/

    Soooo....
    How'd it go last night bobat?
    Did your motivation kick in?


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    Default Re: not motivated to approach tonight :/

    hey man, well it was not one of my best nights..

    i approached about 4 girls only, 3 rejections :P, the other 1 was not 100% successful either but i used the Wanna know why you suck Opener and it actually worked , first she was like looking at me in some weird way and kinda offended, when i replied "you're not dancing with me" she giggled, and starting dancing..
    she was like HB 9. didnt even need to make her attracted to me, or build comfort because it was there from right after opening..

    anyways i didn't get her number or kiss.. because shes a tourist so she told me if i give u number its useless.. so i didn't try to go for the kiss either ..

    the good thing though is that i helped my m8 get an HB7.. his first approach after months of aa and 0 approaches haha ;/

    still better than sleeping at home :P
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    Default Re: not motivated to approach tonight :/

    Quote Originally Posted by bobat6 View Post
    hey man, well it was not one of my best nights..

    i approached about 4 girls only, 3 rejections :P, the other 1 was not 100% successful either but i used the Wanna know why you suck Opener and it actually worked , first she was like looking at me in some weird way and kinda offended, when i replied "you're not dancing with me" she giggled, and starting dancing..
    she was like HB 9. didnt even need to make her attracted to me, or build comfort because it was there from right after opening..

    anyways i didn't get her number or kiss.. because shes a tourist so she told me if i give u number its useless.. so i didn't try to go for the kiss either ..

    the good thing though is that i helped my m8 get an HB7.. his first approach after months of aa and 0 approaches haha ;/

    still better than sleeping at home :P
    Right on!

    Here's another way I started looking at success vs. "failure".
    Just go in with the attitude that the REAL goal, & the ONLY thing that matters, is the approach itself. If you DO the approach, it's successful; regardless of the outcome.

    So.... you were successful 4 times!

    Or, looking at it slightly different: If those were the only 4 girls you were interested in approaching, you were 100% successful, because you approached all 4.

    I'd say, you had a pretty good night.


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    Default Re: not motivated to approach tonight :/

    haha wow man you are 1 of a kind i think :P.. way extremely positive.. haha 4/4 success!

    btw how did you know? that was my intention exactly.. just approach and if she looks interested immediately, (showing ioi's) its game on if not.. cya

    actually you are right i approached 4 cute girls (probs still better than about 90% of guys which go to clubs and stare at the girls) and yeah all in all it was a good night, i had fun with friends on their birthday, 4 approaches, get my friend to finally approach..

    got me more motivated for next time clubbing .. thx again bro!
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    Default Re: not motivated to approach tonight :/

    It's all about finding a way to get into the right state, & to build your confidence.
    Everyone is different though... so you need to try different ways & different things to see what actually works best for you personally.

    For me, if I can rationalize it in my head so I see everything as "success" or "improvement", then I'm all for it.


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    Default Re: not motivated to approach tonight :/

    Just food for thought, or further research...

    Muhammad Ali never had sex before a match... Got that testosterone pumping. I say don't release your desires for a bit, and studies show that after 6-7 days of not jerking it, men show increased motivation to get with women, release more pheromones, etc. Then the cycle restarts with low testosterone for the next 1-5 days, and then a huge jump again.

    That's why some PUAs swear by "releasing" on a Sunday night, and letting the Tension build up all week until they get laid, or until the weekend when they can use that carnal motivation to get women. Trust me, you won't wanna stay home and play StarCraft when you haven't beaten off all week.

    LOL


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