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    Default Re: How do you approach a party girl?

    I added some more detail so you guys can give a more direct reading into the situation.
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    Default Re: How do you approach a party girl?

    Hey Aut ... check out my recent post and provide more feedback please. I see what you are saying and I might have to think about this one a little.

    The bartender guy is causally dating her but she said she didnt have sex with him as yet?

    When she said the slut line I feel as though she was testing me for some reason. Like dangling food infront of me or playing live chess. I didnt care much of it really because sex is never my ultimate goal.


    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    Hey Topgunningit,




    If you didn't token resist enough, or showed too much interest in escalating kino once, the whole "with the bar tender thing" might have just been LMR

    In that sense, I think the bartender might not be a big deal, either (a) they are together - in which case she WILL cheat on him because cheating is bad and she likes bad boys, simple as that, and he probably won't find out; or (b) they are not together at all - she just played "I have bf" when she hit LMR or (c) they are casually together - because she is a tester and has a bullpin of several guys on the line. She said she didn't want to feel like a slut, but even sluts don't want to feel like sluts at LMR

    You also might have lost some value when she talked herself through the pros and cons of sleeping with you "I want to... but I'll feel like a slut..." she likes bad boys, and respecting her feelings / other social constraints was the noble thing to do I'm afraid.

    As for getting her to acknowledge your text - I don't know. I hate trying to recover a flake in text because I have ZERO frames, FTC, body-rock, facial expression - half the tool box is missing when you text. Maybe silence for a day then send a dhv/disqualifying text about something really decadent or bad-boy-ish you did the previous night. Text her like a friendzoned fellow partier under the unspoken frame of LJBF, if she nibbles the bate, disqualify her from your decadence and badness with a invite/DHV/Neg text.

    If you meet her up again I'd say be the awesome guy - mostly high energy and social proof - but throw her lost of IOD's and grab some pawns to get jealousy - be a bad boy if you can (or just hook up with the pawns ).

    It would be an interesting (though perhaps unnecessary) exercise in recovering a situation.
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    Default Re: How do you approach a party girl?

    Is it because of Social Darwinism and that females see males as a hunter and should take when they want? Anyways this is getting too deep.

    It's preselection/social proof/creating triangles. People want what other people want. It's as simple as that. Abundance begets abundance. Not too deep, that's the cool stuff

    She said she didn't want to feel like a slut, but even sluts don't want to feel like sluts at LMR

    Lol, true.

    I said "I dont want you to go home by yourself ... let me be your bodyguard for the night."

    Nice!

    Girls frequently say the opposite of what they mean. You would have benefited by ignoring her words completely and listening to her intent.

    "I don't want to feel like a slut."

    "That's fine, because I don't see you as a slut."

    Then pick her up, kick the door in, and throw her on the bed.

    She wanted you. Probably still does. Take charge.
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    Default Re: How do you approach a party girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    Girls frequently say the opposite of what they mean. You would have benefited by ignoring her words completely and listening to her intent.

    "I don't want to feel like a slut."

    "That's fine, because I don't see you as a slut."

    Then pick her up, kick the door in, and throw her on the bed.

    She wanted you. Probably still does. Take charge.
    Haha totally agree. Girls dont want to be seen as a slut but so many times in bed with a girl when they are aroused and horny they actually get off on being slutty in behaviour...I don't mean that in a bad way, I mean that their animal instincts come out. How many innocent women have we all gone out with and they are kinda shy and acting all nice and properly...following the social protocol or catholic schooling or whatever and then bam! get them into bed and they turn into howling werewolves want to be 'farked hard'.

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    Default Re: How do you approach a party girl?

    A few ideas for some hail marys Ive never tried in field

    LJBF/bad boy/cf
    "Yo baryender guy heard you left with someone else! He asked me about it and I said Id help him hunt the bastard down ljbf"

    Cf/DSQ
    "Those guys(cat calling from the street) keep asking about you. I could hool you up, they seem like your type." (Dunno if a XP at the end would come off too nice for her)

    Bad boy/ false leave behind (kinda AFC tho)
    "Did I leave my weed pipe at your place?"

    BadboyCrime gambit (this moght come off as a joke if shes seen pulp fiction)
    "Crap dude I need a place to hide this body quick! I need to lay low at your place! Omw there"
    ...wait 20 mins...
    "Sorry wrong number"

    Preselection fake text/badboy
    "Nah bro she was cute but Im not gonna call her"
    ...3 mins later...
    "Oops wrong #"

    Hope these help some food for thought
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    Default Re: How do you approach a party girl?

    I like the last one

    Have you ever used that? What was the response?

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    Default Re: How do you approach a party girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by timman View Post
    I like the last one

    Have you ever used that? What was the response?

    Just thought of it. Gotta give it a run next chance. If you get a definite success/failure call on it, PM me how it goes!
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