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    Default When is talking is too much talking?

    I see some of you guys mentioned that too much talking can cause a problem? Normally I talk less or moderate the convo but hmmm I am curious to know when is too much talking too much talking?
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    Default Re: When is talking is too much talking?

    This question doesn't quite identify the real concern appropriately.

    The idea is to get girls to be engaged in the conversation. You can tell stories but you want to lead them to learn more about your target. IE tell a value story about hanging out with your niece then ask the girl about her family and what she values
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    Default Re: When is talking is too much talking?

    I've found that those amazing, vibing conversations involve contributions of about 50% from each person to the total time talking + 30% (the margin of error decreases as the length of conversation increases.

    It's not so much about an absolute too much, but too much means you are talking waaay more than she is (dominating the conversation - not allowing her to qualify etc) or talking too little (not contributing to the conversation - failing to ioi after she's earned it)

    Talking too much can also mean that you are contributing most of the content of the conversation (speaking for a much greater amount of time) because you might have not gotten her interested enough - in this case, "talking too much" correlates to a fail, but with a more complex underlying cause.
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    Default Re: When is talking is too much talking?

    Excessive talking can really come off as many things in my opinion. Think about people you know who excessively talk, whether they are male or female, you are likely to find yourself disengaged and bored with the conversation. Women are even moreso like this.

    If you are giving her too much attention, and you are doing all the talking, it can be a turn off. It goes along with Push-Pull, talking too much and too often is too much interest, I totally agree with autismus' above percentages, you need to work conversations down to a good medium, and when your talking about frequency of conversations with a girl, that also can't be too excessive

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    Default Re: When is talking is too much talking?

    when conversation is pointless and without sense. when one side doesnt enjoy it anymore.

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    Default Re: When is talking is too much talking?

    I always found it amazing how in a classroom the teacher gives their lecture on my favorite subject and I could still nod off.

    Maybe it's their delivery, like there are no cliffhangars, or that it's not emotionally relevant. I'm not sure.

    What I do know for sure is that the teachers that got the class to contribute to the lecture had more awake students. So make it a two way convo and make sure it's something that is emotionally relevant to her. Just my thoughts.


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