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    Default How do you move from regular chitchat to flirting?

    Don't have much trouble approaching women, talking to them, getting them to dance, shoot som pool or whatever. I'm having trouble with making an good transition from chitchatting about whatever the fark to lets actually make something happen talk.
    I guess one thing to do is to start all over and begin try and start off with some witty crap right away and tease from the getgo.. But any transition methods? Any statements, questions etc that can loop me in the right direction?

    Same thing with dancing. How do you make the kissing happen easier while dancing? How do you go from just feeling her ass out a bit to heavy making out?

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    Default Re: How do you move from regular chitchat to flirting?

    If she let's you feel her ass on the dancefloor she is going to let you kiss her. It's loud, you have to talk close to her ear, kiss her neck and then lips or just pull her close to you along with the climax of a songs phrase and kiss. Better to try kiss her elsewhere in more privacy though if you want a longer relationship.

    In terms of conversation remember that most women and their female friends talk about a lot of intimate stuff so don't be afraid to ask fairly provocative questions that get her adrenaline going like 'are you a good kisser?' 'have you ever kissed any of your female friends?' 'what color underwear are you wearing' 'describe your dream guy' 'I love your bangles and rings' (grab her hand, Kino) 'you know you look very sexy when you play pool'. *The main transition is to observe and ascertain that she likes you and make a move if you know she does or work harder to get attraction if she doesn't. If you really don't know ask her 'do you like me?' that will put her on the spot and can actually be rather cocky/confident if you say it the right way (or you already know). Your forcing her to qualify herself. Same with the other questions - by qualifying or testing her you can work out if she likes you and make a move with more confidence and less risk. Compliment her in a flirty way and watch her reaction 'Nice dress, if only there was a fan under the floor like that classic marlyn munroe photo'. Also just asking a girl out (rather than casual pool games and conversation) is making a transition. If she says yes to a date and it goes well she will go out again and if a girl see's you a second time you are in like Flynn as long as you dont stuff up. You can start to bring up lots of sexual inuendo or ambiguity quite safely in conversation as long as you are not sleazy about it. Most men can't help but compliment a women they like somewhere along the line but reading the girls reaction to that compliment is critical. Does she blush? Is she annoyed? Does she compliment back? I can usually tell straight away when I meet a girl whether I can get her or not so usually the transition is simply having the balls or energy and just going for it.

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    Default Re: How do you move from regular chitchat to flirting?

    ABF - Always Be Flirting

    All good flirting is improvised. However, improvisation must be done from within a framework. Here is an example framework that can be used almost universally.


    It is a completely stupid flirt line that can be dropped in any situation. The purpose is to take anything that has just happened and return it in the form "I'd x your y", which sexualises it by generating a double-entendre. This is the principle of most flirting.


    E.g.
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    "Urgh yuck, the waitress should come wipe this table"
    "I'd wipe your table"
    "What!"
    "You know, don't pretend you don't know"

    2.
    "Do you come here often"
    "I'd cum there often" - point at a bit of her you'd really like to throw seed at
    *Shock* "No!"
    "No? Errr ... OK. I wouldn't then. Under no circumstances would I cum anywhere near you because you are gross. No, wait a minute. I would actually because you are hot as fudge. And, you prefer the version where you are a super-fit hotty and covered in jizz ... don't you?"


    Jefe!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jefe View Post
    No, wait a minute. I would actually because you are hot as fudge. And, you prefer the version where you are a super-fit hotty and covered in jizz ... don't you?"
    haha .................... ..........

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    Default Re: How do you move from regular chitchat to flirting?

    transitioning from talking to flirting and eventually kissing etc, in my opinion, is most defined by push-pull, building of tension, and most importantly Kino. You need to playfully neg her rather than shower her in compliments, creating a Push Pull situation, building up tension using double entendre and innuendos, all with a playful confident attitude. Make sure when you make these playful jokes you include kino alongside, like touching her arm, hands, hair etc. Maybe you made a comment about her hair, like the classic, "they really make extensions well these days, don't they?" line : touch it, play with it. You can neg her about her hands, that they are big: touch them, put them up to yours to compare, you see where I'm going with it? If your going to neg and be a playful guy, be a touchy guy too

    we are human beings: we want to be touched and its going to build attraction and comfort

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    Default Re: How do you move from regular chitchat to flirting?

    negs are gross and a form of emotional abuse.


    Jefe!

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    Default Re: How do you move from regular chitchat to flirting?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jefe View Post
    Negs are gross and a form of emotional abuse.


    Jefe!
    Counterpoint:

    Insults are emotional abuse - designed to make someone feel bad about themselves - taking them down a few pegs with hostility

    Negs are a form of teasing - like you would tease a younger sibling who gets too cocky - taking them down a few pegs with friendliness


    As for getting from CB to flirting, I usually keep convo going until she's really comfortable and really vibing - then I Isolate to somewhere darker and more intimate - then I Neg a little more, push pull a little more, ebb and flow into her personal bubble and pull away quickly, touch for a moment then release.

    This way of giving her physical proximity then taking it away makes her MISS it - makes her WANT it - then when she wants to be touched some more I do a few "gimme your hand" routines and escalate firther Kino from there

    2 ways I like to initiate the kiss:

    (1) "So I noticed you thinking about kissing me." - one of Mystery's gambits

    (2) Pull her in gently
    By the hand, by the chin, by the neck - wherever your hand is
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    Default Re: How do you move from regular chitchat to flirting?

    Try bantering with her. Say something like "Did you just ask me to make out with you? Because that's what I heard..." with a mischievous look in your eye. Be cool and just enjoy yourself and those things will happen naturally.

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    Default Re: How do you move from regular chitchat to flirting?

    Good stuff guys. Thanks a lot!


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