Hey guys, this is my first thread and i really wish you can help me out with your thoughts and advice.
I've been gaming for awhile now but just got into PUA stuff some months ago, its made me rethink every i was doing until that point.
One of these is game on 6s and 7s. Of course if given the choice, we would all go for 9s and 10s but in my experience, you're sometimes stuck into situations where you're stuck with less than ideal girls, case in point last weekend:
Me and some friends went out to a club and one of them got some girls to come along, we all met there and it was 4 girls for 4 guys, perfect. The hottest girl came with my friend who brought the girls so she was taken, her close friend is a HB8 and a bit of a party girl, good energy. Problem is, one of my good friends aggressively and quickly locked in and told us quite explicitly hands off, since my friend lives and works in Spain and we rarely see him i didn't make a big deal out of it. That left my and my AFC buddy two solid 7s, which was ok with me, game on.
I opened one of them asking her how she and her friends knew each other and with the tattoos on girls opinion opener, i could feel her getting nervous. Then the music kicked in and i brought some good energy to the set, i spinned all the girls around and they were having fun, i started to kino escalate. The girl i was talking to told me she was studying ecology, i grinned and told her she was too much of a good girl for me, she insisted on telling me i was also a good person. Then she tripped a little and i caught her and teased her about it, she was smiling and it was going great, from this point on it all went downhill.
I told her "you're so cute.. too bad i hate you". I could sense she didn't take this as mere fun banter. I saw that my AFC buddy wasn't really striking up conversation with the other girl and that was pretty much the whole point of him tagging along, i went and opened with some stuff and told her she looked like the bad girl, she ate it up and wanted to dance with me... I danced awhile with her and suddenly the leader HB8 also told me she wanted to dance quite seductively with me, i obliged of course until my friend came over.
This is where the funniest part of the night came:
HB8: "So... Which one of my friends did you like?"
Me: "all of them.."
HB8: "NOOO! You have to pick one!"
Me: "ALL OF THEM"
I glanced over and the two 7s were trying to make my AFC friend lighten up and try to make him dance, he was being awkward so i went back and danced with my original target. Next i got IOIs from both 7s, i grabbed their hand and they squeezed back, they started touching me and one of them scratched her face while talking to me, i was spending my time with both girls. I went to the second girl and to my amazement i watched as my original target started to chat up my AFC buddy. The night was starting to wind down so i went to the first girl and tried to isolate her, her response? "No, remember you don't like me", this put me a bit off balance, we sat down and i did the cube on her, she liked it and i did 5 lies game for her cell number. She was really into it at the beginning but i messed up at the end and she thought i was dumb. In the end when we were all leaving i did manage to Number Close but it was not very smooth. Before she left she threw one more potshot at my hate neg all while she made my AFC friend promise to add her on facebook (he didn't even attempt to number close). It's been two days, he hasn't added her.
So the whole point of this is to ask, in your experiences how does game with 6s and 7s differ from 8s/9s/10s?? I was left with the sense that my neg was too much and my overall attitude was too cocky, too alpha. The girl kind of knew i wasn't really going to stick around for much.
This isn't the first time i see this either, my wing regularly gets HB8s with ease, but when its his turn with the obstacles he reaches a stumbling block where they don't even like him regularly.
Phew, this was much longer than i intended, i do hope you guys can throw me a bone here.