I agree with white dragon and the others.
At the gym? Well ...
ME: "I havent seen you here before are you new?"
HB: "I have been here since" / "Yeah I am new"
ME: "Cool, my name is topgun you?"
ME: "Do you normally workout intensely? Or are you a pretty relaxed person?"
ME: "Yeah I can see that. [Laughs] I do not want to hold you up but let me ask a you a question?"
ME: "[not paying attention pretending to get back working out but still maintaining eye contact] Check this out, well I read in a recent gym magazine that did a poll on gyms and dating and that people who are gym pandas like myself and you [Laughs and pause] will have a hard time getting a date due to our dedication to the gym do you think its true?
That opens up an emotional convo about relationships and you can even ask her what types of guys she dates and neg her about maybe dating a juice head. Like the others say remember to make a timed convo and walk away. Places like gyms and so forth are places that you will see someone on a regular basis so you dont have to invest too much time, just slowly chip away at her like you are carving out stone art because if she goes to the gym regularly you will more than likely see her again. Also, women go to the gym for a peace of mind but if the right guy comes along and nicely ask them out they might say yes. I read this in a gym magazine and most of the girls I asked at my gym said its true.
Originally Posted by daniel3:16