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Thread: Getting lots of ioi's from women since i dropped lots of weight.

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    Default Getting lots of ioi's from women since i dropped lots of weight.

    Well i really don't have that much experience with women. You could say i'm kinda a nerd when it comes to women. I recently loss alot of weight and changed my style. I'm currently a bike messenger and i encounter women all the time! Like the other day I was in front of a state building. And this tall hot blonde sat on the opposite side of the stairs. Then she noticed me. she had those bug eye glasses girls wear these days, nice mini skirt with long legs and unbuttoned work shirt showing cleavage very professional. So i noticed her glancing at me every once in awhile. All the ioi's were there. playing with the hair, crossing of the legs in my direction. meanwhile i'm just acting all nonchalant trying not to panic lol. It got to the point where I swear she looked all hot and horny for me and started staring at me. She had this look like MOTHER farkER WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO APPROACH ME! I bailed the Tension was to high. i guess it intimidated me.

    Another ex. there's a couple women i see in the bus most days. They either sit next to me if they can or stand close to if the bus is packed. most of the times when i think of making a move my mouth just shuts off. How can i get over this social awkwardness or fear.

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    Default Re: Getting lots of ioi's from women since i dropped lots of weight.

    its Approach Anxiety m8..
    quick summary - it happens when you wait more than 3 seconds to approach the girl because :
    you will start thinking about her looks and yours (shes a 9/10 im a 7, i cant do it)
    she will reject me and embarass myself

    since you saw the IOI's you should have just went straight up to her and approach, dw, if she rejects you, you will still feel better afterwords
    1) i won't hate myself the next day for not knowing if i had a chance or not..
    2) i had the balls which a lot of guys don't (especially day game)
    3) when you get rejected, you learn!

    and next time, you see a girl, you get less anxious..

    some threads which might help you:
    Major aa
    Destroy AA
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: Getting lots of ioi's from women since i dropped lots of weight.

    Forget IOIs, they mess you up. Just do what you want to do.


    Jefe!


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