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Thread: Opener girl at work. All suggestions welcome.

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    Default Opener girl at work. All suggestions welcome.

    There is this fine girl at my work. HB 9. She always sits alone during break and is on her phone the whole time. In my opener I would like to link the two --- no one wants to sit by her. On her phone pretends to have friends.

    All suggestions are welcomed.

    Appreciate it.

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    Default Re: Opener girl at work. All suggestions welcome.

    Actually, you can go with more of a "day game" approach, since you're at work & it's day time.

    Day game allows for more polite, friendly, & even complimentary stuff. You don't really have to have a clever opener that borders on the lines of a neg.

    You can go more direct & up front with something like, "Heya. I noticed you're always sitting alone, and I just wanted to come over & say hello. Besides, I get the feeling you'd be good company."

    Then, as you get into the attraction phase, you can start teasing her a little about "pretending to have friends on her phone"... etc.

    But for the initial opener, I wouldn't go with the semi-sarcastic / neg type of approach.



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    Default Re: Opener girl at work. All suggestions welcome.

    I completely agree with tmalonetn... she's much less likely to have her b1tch shield up during the day...just keep a smile on your face and be friendly...then once you get the conversation rolling a little bit throw in some playful teasing about how she sits alone and pretends to have friends hahah

    Good luck man!

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    Default Re: Opener girl at work. All suggestions welcome.

    Good look guys. I think that's the right call.

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    Default Re: Opener girl at work. All suggestions welcome.

    i would try to sit next to her, just smile and do my business that time and tomorrow do that again but with an opener.

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    Default Re: Opener girl at work. All suggestions welcome.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lukee View Post
    i would try to sit next to her, just smile and do my business that time and tomorrow do that again but with an opener.
    Yea I agree. I prefer to play uninterested.

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    Default Re: Opener girl at work. All suggestions welcome.

    Its during the day and at work. She is an HB9 so she probably gets alot of guys trying to come under the radar and can smell it a mile away. Save that for night game where direct is more expected from drunk guys.

    I agree with tmalonetn. Be friendly and open. You have the edge since NO ONE else talks to her. (probably because she has a psychoctic boyfriend lol). And just adjust yourself as you get to know her (not literally. That's grounds for sexual harassment :P). If you sense she's got an attitude then adjust yourself as a badass who doesn't give a fark. If she's a sweetheart then play the confident, safe, yet mysterious guy who isn't afraid to show that he is interested in getting to know her.

    Understand an opener is just to get someone in social mode. Preferably one that makes her smile. Not something that would make her defensive. Especially if you aren't sure what kind of person she is.

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    Default Re: Opener girl at work. All suggestions welcome.

    I don't understand why this is difficult. I mean, you work with her, sooo how have you not talked to her or had some kind of interaction?


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